Dream of a car and a truck = accident* * * ok

Hey boss,
I am back because I would like you to interpret the dream (in several parts) that I had the other night, as soon as you have the time, of course.

We are in the car. My ex-husband and his wife are in the back. I am in the front, but in the passenger seat. There is no driver; my ex-husband is steering from the back seat of the vehicle. I tell my ex-husband that I could maybe take the wheel just to steer (I don’t have a driver’s license), and he says yes. I reply that it’s better not to, because it’s the dead person’s seat.
We are taking a new road. The asphalt is brand new. But the road is dangerous. We take a fairly sharp turn and encroach on the grass. The road is like a racetrack. Then I see an accidented car, but there are no injuries, no one inside.
Up on the heights, another road. All of a sudden, a truck hits the safety barrier and plunges into the ravine. It tumbles all the way down but isn't really damaged. I scan the cab to see if anyone gets out alive. Nothing. A few seconds pass, and the driver gets out as if nothing had happened. He's not hurt. But he seems dazed. I ask him, "Are you okay?" but he doesn't even answer me.
We head back up to the upper road via a set of stairs. As I climb the last step, I point out to my ex-husband and his wife that I had said the road was dangerous, but no one had listened to me. There are police officers investigating the truck accident. We saw the whole scene from below, but it’s no use testifying, as it wouldn’t add anything to what has already been said.
I place two little chicks in a child’s hands. Instead of gently closing her hands to keep them from escaping, she keeps them open. Naturally, the chicks hop over the barrier and, in turn, tumble down the slope leading to the ravine. But it seems they don’t get hurt and hop from level to level. One falls. I think it’s dead. But it gets up and continues on its way. They are black with a very pretty green beak.
We are going back down the stairs because we have to leave.

I am with a man. It is the actor Gerard Butler (I went to the cinema last night to see a film in which he is one of the protagonists). We keep making love. I find his body magnificent and I feel good and safe in his presence. Every time I see him, I desire him and willingly let him have his way. We are in bed. He gets up and at that moment his wife comes in. I pull the sheets up to the middle of my face. She sees me but says nothing. As if she didn't care. No domestic scene.
I see my daughter with two of her friends, one of whom, Elise, has grown a lot and is at least a head taller than my daughter. I joke that I no longer want to talk to her because she’s now taller than me. I also want to show the man I’m with that I’m very comfortable around my daughter’s friends. I ask Elise if her mom is doing well and if she’s back from Las Vegas (she’s there for work). She replies as if it’s obvious, “Well, no, she hasn’t come back.”

Here it is, it’s a bit long, sorry. But my dreams are mostly long because I very often remember them in the smallest details… and I write them down. Thank you for taking the time to interpret it.
I hope everything is going well for you, and I never miss the chance to regularly take a little look around the site.
Bisous

Hello Elisabeth Mignon-Riteau,

The past is the past; they are behind you, and you must take the Car: it symbolizes your “inner driving,” illustrating how you behave in social or family situations.

So for the moment, you are unable to take charge of your destiny because the past still holds you back and directs you, even against your will. You are passive because you let yourself be led. You want to be in the driver's seat (no license, the dead person's spot), and for him, he lets you do it, no problem.

We are taking a new road: a fresh start, a crossroads, a decision to make

Brand-new asphalt: yes, a fresh start is a must, but the future is uncertain

Take the sharp turn and run onto the grass: taking the turn is not easy and always dangerous, but the cap will be crossed (the grass is good or bad)

Grass: The image offers several layers of symbolism: wealth and fertility first, for where grass grows, animals graze, plants thrive, and people are fed, and aridity is far away; yet this abundance requires care. Good health as well: throughout history, herbs have offered their healing virtues. The dream may be offering you this advice. Only weeds could signify neglect (negative elements have been allowed to invade the field of consciousness) or suffocation, contrary to desirable development; pulling up weeds is therefore a good sign.

The road is like a race track: the image is an omen of happiness, without obstacles, like an ardent desire to reach one's goal. Sometimes one runs to escape reality or a malevolent being. The dominant idea is the refusal of awareness: “a part of oneself is trying to avoid something.”

A damaged car: setbacks, a bad past action, no injuries and no one inside

From the heights: one must view life from an elevated vantage point

Another route: making a decision

A truck hits the safety barrier and falls into the ravine without being really damaged: the weight is too heavy to carry and you can't quite get a grip on it

I scan the cabin to see if anyone comes out alive: and the driver steps out as if nothing had happened, no injuries

Drunk: intoxicated, it can be considered a loss of self-control and reasoning faculties. The dream can therefore illustrate a tendency in your usual behavior: you lack self-mastery and allow your impulses to dominate.

We head back up the road via the stairs: more effort is required to make progress

Arrived at the destination (last stretch of the journey), the road is dangerous, but you didn't listen to the advice... a bitter realization... need a third party to sort all this out

We saw the scene... it's pointless... and it brings nothing and serves no purpose: everything has been said, done, and talking about it would be pointless (because you are passive and in a state of resignation, of giving up, like accepting your karma)

I place two chicks in a child’s hands… and they fall into the ravine: a dangerous ordeal whether it is ascending or descending, you are on a bad slope

But it seems they don’t get hurt: so a fall, then they get up and carry on: ups and downs.

Summarize:

It symbolizes your “inner conduct”; it illustrates how you behave in social or family situations. So, for the time being, you are unable to adopt or take your destiny into your own hands, because the past still holds you back and directs you, even against your will. You are passive because you let yourself be led. A new beginning, a crossroads, a decision to make. Yes, a new start is imperative, but you are not sure about the future. Taking the turn is not easy and is always dangerous, but the course will be set (whether the grass is good or bad). The road is like a race track: the image is a harbinger of happiness, without obstacles, like an ardent desire to reach your goal. Accidents along the way, a bad action from the past, no one is hurt or inside, except that you need to look, to see life from an elevated vantage point. You need to make a decision, but the burden is too heavy to bear and you are not able to control it well. It can be considered a loss of self-control and reasoning faculties. The dream can therefore illustrate a tendency in your usual behavior: you lack self-mastery and let your impulses dominate. You still have to make efforts to progress. Arrival at the destination (last step): the road is dangerous, but you did not listen to the advice... a bitter realization... the need for a third party to put order into all this, because you are passive and in a state of giving up, of throwing in the towel, like accepting your karma). A dangerous ordeal, whether ascending or descending, you are on a bad slope. So a fall, then getting up and resuming the road: ups and downs... because you have suffered too many trials and no longer know how to think or have a logical attitude; it is preferable to have a helping hand or an attentive ear.

Best regards
Ladysally

Thank you for taking the time to interpret this dream

No problem, see you next time
lady :-*