Hello Olivette1963,
You ask yourself a lot of questions; the psychic in your dream is you. On one hand, your feminine energy of intuition, imagination, and creation, and on the other, appearing logical, reasonable, objective, and so on…
Maturity-related questions: don’t do anything without thinking. There are quarrels and discord, and for the moment you are no longer very sure of anything; you are indecisive.
You have the answer to your question, no, don't do it (baby not normal) means a very unhealthy project under bad conditions.
Sincerely
Ladysally