Innate or Acquired Clairvoyance?

Edited by Tom:
I changed the title of this message
“Assault by MP, not a real medium,” a more appropriate title.

A member just assaulted me and slandered me via private message

Here is his message:
I am a true medium and the only thing I have to say is that you are a scammer because clairvoyance cannot be learned!!!

Besides the fact that I can’t stand being called a thief when I give my time to keep a free website running… I find that this person clearly lacks knowledge about esotericism.

And what do you think? Do you, like me, believe that clairvoyance is a gift that can be cultivated and developed?

Do you think, like this aggressive pseudo-medium, that this is not true?

Good evening Tom,

I agree with you, I also think that clairvoyance is a gift that develops and is cultivated over time, first through knowledge of various tarots, through intuition and experience!
And then all learning is beneficial to one who seeks knowledge, in whatever field it may be.
Who among us can afford to say, I am a true psychic or a true medium?
Everyone can be wrong and right, let's let the consultants decide who we really are!
But let us absolutely not belittle the work that many of us do voluntarily to help those who are in moral distress or who are asking themselves existential questions that may change their lives in their quest for a better future!
Aggression has always been a poor advisor throughout human history, while each person tries to contribute their part to the edifice, aiming to build positively rather than putting obstacles in the way; I do not know why or for what reason. Accusation is easy, but one must also know how to weigh everything in the balance; that is what Justice and the right to truth are!
In short, I would say: whoever accuses, accuses themselves!

Warm regards
The magician.

Good evening Tom,
Good evening Lemagicien,
First of all, any act of aggression is prosecutable in my view.
Then, where there is rage, there is jealousy.
Knowledge is acquired throughout our lives, and clairvoyance is also achieved through a specific technique that will complement our intuition and experience.
It is not for this person to decide who is good and who is not. Especially since we work voluntarily to help our fellow human beings who are struggling in a society that is in crisis.
We will not admit defeat to the competition, and we will continue on our little path, helping people as best we can who are happy with us and with the site. The proof is there, and the site's reputation is already established.
With that, I wish a lot of courage to our administrator Tom and to our good Lemagicien, as well as to all those who participate, whether very actively or not.
Best regards
Ladysally

Hello Tom!

Here is a charming psychic who does not have a very open mind and who certainly did not take the trouble to explore this site to discover all its aspects! I also believe that clairvoyance is a gift that develops and is cultivated; she may be right on one point: if one does not have a gift, or a certain degree of sensitivity, it must be difficult to become a psychic, but there are not only psychics; there are also guides who use and interpret cards in order to help people evolve, find themselves, make decisions, etc…

I have never felt scammed on this site; on the contrary, I find help, generosity, and availability here during a difficult and lonely time in my life! And all of this for free! I don't know if this medium can offer as much!!!

Thank you all for being here, and thank you, Tom, for this fascinating site!

Bruise

Hello Tom,
I don't understand how someone can write a message like that. And for good reason: we are on the internet and we don't know each other. We can always present a different image of ourselves if we feel like it…

• You give your time and share your knowledge with others, and on top of that, for free.
• It seems to me that she cannot speak of a scam. Besides, it is up to each individual to make their own assessment and determine what may be true or false through their own intuitions.

I think that mediumship develops, and I want to see for myself whether I can develop it. I also want to see whether these premonitory dreams are a “coincidence” or not. And I will never say that someone is a true medium or not. Even about myself, I do not say so when people ask me, because I have no confirmation on this matter. And I will not pass myself off as someone I am not. Nor will I call someone something they are not. And this out of respect for the other person.

Good luck, Tom, and thank you for everything you do for the forum.

ClaudiaC

Hello,

I am not a psychic, but as a consultant, I greatly appreciate that people give their time and energy—(it takes a lot to keep a website running!)—and that they do so voluntarily and purely out of generosity. Meanwhile, some take advantage of others' distress to make a fortune at their expense, without a shred of shame! As for me, I would simply say that criticism is easy, but the art is difficult, and wanting to bring comfort to those around you, and on top of that for free in an era where everything comes at a price, is commendable. So let the gloomy spirits vent their bile; I have only one word to say to you: BRAVO to everyone, and keep it up! friendly regards :-*

Good evening Tom, just a reaction to reading the letter that was sent to you, whose lamentable mediocrity is matched only by a clear lack of courtesy and seriousness for someone who claims to be a "real" medium (a real one, in this case).
Mediumship, no more than clairvoyance, are not static states acquired once and for all. There are certainly predispositions, a greater or lesser receptivity that we all possess to some degree in a natural state, and which only some feel more than others and, even better, cultivate, without thereby being assured that this state of perception is permanently theirs.
I don't quite grasp it, especially the motivation behind such a statement, whose presumption is thought-provoking…
Does this person think, for example, that it is possible to draw tarot cards without having undergone a long apprenticeship in the meaning of the cards, their esoteric content, etc.??? And even when these have become "a medium," one still needs prior knowledge.
Keep up the good work on your site, and thank you for creating it.
Mamouch

Hello Tom
I think that indeed we can awaken the gifts we possess by developing and nurturing them a little every day… As for the insulting people, it is clear that they are not welcome on such a friendly site as this one, and that they lack complete manners and intelligence.

Friendship
Sandra

Hello Tom,
Hello Lemagicien,

A little note first of all to thank you for all the time you give us without keeping count… It is rare these days to meet people like you.

A second little note to tell you: don't let yourself be swept away by these people who are not worth it... let all of this pass by your indifference...

And a third little word to tell you: CONGRATULATIONS on this site that brings us nothing but happiness!

THANK YOU SO MUCH!

We thank you for these encouragements, which make us want to continue. !

It is true that one must not give in to the temptation of getting angry, and one must not focus on the form.

What interests me is mainly the substance and the subject: can one become psychic, is it something that can be learned?

From what I read in the summary of your messages, the general sentiment seems to be that one is born with a gift and learns to develop it.

I really appreciate the magician’s cheeky remark: “Anyone can be wrong and right, so let’s let the consultants decide who we really are!”

There are people who try things out and seek to develop their intuition on the questions forum (which serves that purpose to some extent); what do you think?

For my part, I think that we develop... Claudiac tells us, "I think that mediumship develops, and I myself want to see if I can develop it," so you will be a good witness for us: a priori, you were not born a medium, and you wish to develop it.

The real question is how can we enhance these sensitivities? How to become psychic? Learn a technique? Practice? Find a master? Answer netizens on the forum? Take courses?

How to develop your gifts?

Good evening Tom, Good evening Lemagicien,
Hi Ladysally, Claudiac, Rolande, and Eliana,

Voyance AZ is the only site I know where clairvoyance is entirely free and conducted with complete honesty, so it would have been surprising if it did not provoke jealous individuals to act with malice. Too many dishonest psychics use the internet to enrich themselves.

Tom, you have created a wonderful site and even though you do not practice clairvoyance yourself, you oversee everything and read all the messages in all the sections to put things in the right place or correct what is wrong; it is a huge amount of work.

The magician, I think your talents are no longer in question.
As for you, ladies, you also give a great deal of your time by hosting very enriching segments that foster a broad open-mindedness.

Can one become a psychic? Is it something that can be learned?
So here is another very interesting topic for debate.
For my part, I think that each of us has a more or less large share of intuition, varying from one individual to another.
Some people have a genuine gift of mediumship, but in order to truly make use of it, they need to learn to control and cultivate it; otherwise, it will be of no use to them. There are also people who bring good luck and those who bring bad luck (the latter are usually spotted more quickly! lol!).
However, the cards have a recognized meaning and their reading is learned. Of course, one should not stick to their literal meaning but know how to interpret what they say.
I wouldn't venture into that; there's too much to learn by heart and retain. It's tedious, and I congratulate everyone who has the courage to take it on.
On the other hand, I am fascinated by topics on dream interpretation and intuition, and I really enjoy open debates. I think I have a better grasp of my feelings and my “intuitions,” but I will never be a psychic because I have no such gift.

So let's defy the critics and keep this site running, which is truly very comprehensive with a wide variety of topics.

Best regards

Yes, Tom, that's right.
I was not born a medium. And I cannot say: I sense what will happen in so-and-so's future. And if I could do that, I must be 80% sure of what I am claiming.

My signs are premonitory dreams and feeling good or bad energies.

And to be able to say... from a distance... that I am convinced—without knowing it—that something is off with a person (that they are lying to me). To feel in advance when someone or other writes to me... a fairly advanced sense of telepathy, indeed.

I am asking myself exactly all the questions you raised above, Tom.

And above all, regression (burned alive on a pyre in a past life) and karma (gifts in another life) give me serious doubts about my mediumship, taken together with a past life.

Am I going to “jump” this life to use them?

Will I find it, or will I have the breakthrough that tells me: yes, you can do it.

Honestly, I’ve never been good at memorizing things… but I know I should start somewhere, I just don’t know where.

Apart from a tarot reader in town who was willing to teach me… I will probably see her again.

And to see a medium-healer from here as well.

I thank everyone who has ideas to share with me.

:-*, ClaudiaC

The real question is how can we enhance these sensitivities? How to become psychic? Learn a technique? Practice? Find a master? Answer internet users on the forum? Take courses?

How to develop your gifts?

These are questions I ask myself too.

Can one wake up one morning and say: watch out, my colleague will have an accident today!

For me, this feeling is a very strong sensation. Is it just a feeling, or is it already a form of mediumship?

My maternal grandfather had the feeling described above. However, he never developed it and never took any action. Was he aware of it? According to my mother, he had premonitory dreams just like me.

Would anyone among you have an answer or answers to these questions?

:-*, ClaudiaC

Hello everyone!
And thanks to Tom for pointing me to where to post a debate topic that had been opened elsewhere but which you have surely deleted.
The question asked was, I believe, whether one is a medium innately or whether one can become one by studying clairvoyance.
I found an email that a psychic had written to me and I am copying it here, as I found that it perfectly answers the question. I am only removing what is off-topic.

The truth about clairvoyance.

Clairvoyance exists in each of us. Everyone can see, provided they first desire to do so. Of course, some are more gifted than others at the outset. Everyone can play football, but few will play for the French national team.

For clairvoyance, it's the same thing.

The ability of clairvoyance can come from a hereditary gift inherited from one's parents or grandparents.

However, other individuals develop clairvoyant or magnetic abilities without any prior cases in their family.

Certain factors predispose one to clairvoyance: hypersensitivity, a difficult childhood, or the experience of traumatic events (the death of a loved one, an accident, illness) that reveal the gift.

The gift of clairvoyance is based on an intuition present in each of us but which, in some people, is pushed to the extreme for natural or accidental reasons.

But in many cases, this gift must be revealed through regular practice based on exercises.

A good psychic does not ask questions. He simply states what he sees. He may use a tool (crystal ball, tarot, numerology, I Ching, coffee grounds) or perform pure clairvoyance without a tool and receive direct flashes, that is, images of the client’s future that remain in his brain for only a few seconds.

As far as I’m concerned, the gift is not hereditary. It’s something I developed after the death of a loved one. But it took me a lot of practice to develop this intuition in order to master it and have flashes.

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Not everything is written in our destiny; free will exists, making us responsible for the decisions we make and bear for a certain period. Sometimes, this can turn out to be dramatic in many respects. It is best to avoid experiences that can be traumatic and leave indelible marks.

Perceiving your situation in light of the trials of your life and suggesting a way out. It is up to you to find your own truth. One must be careful with clairvoyance, which, if misused, will make you dependent because you will no longer be able to recenter yourself on your own. We, psychics, project you into a future that is not yet ready, and risk making you act outside of your own judgment and of who you are. You simply need to keep YOUR truth within you, prioritizing a listening to “the little inner voice” that will always guide you.
That, in my opinion, answers several questions raised in different threads.
If I haven't trimmed enough, Tom, I'm counting on you, just as I am if you find a more appropriate title. Thank you.
Kind regards

Thank you very much for this information.

I found the message you were referring to and moved your message inside it.

This letter provides many answers, stemming from common sense and certainly from observing others.

While I also believe that exercise can be a path to development, I am not convinced that a life crisis is necessary to develop these gifts.

Thanks, Tom!

While I also believe that exercise can be a path to development, I am not convinced that a life crisis is necessary to develop these gifts.
In my opinion, it is not an obligation; only in certain cases, in certain individuals, is it a life accident that triggers something that already existed but remained in the shadows.
For some, it comes more naturally, while for others, it never develops.
Glad to have brought a little light.
Best regards

I think that a form of clairvoyance can be acquired, intuition, open-mindedness, Tarot, etc… As for perceiving Spirits, that’s something else.
I tell myself that sometimes, there is an element of fear in the human being, and that our senses erect very powerful barriers against certain aspects of reality, because we are not sufficiently evolved on the mental plane, and because spirits, too, are perhaps not all good! Some have been designed with this direct line to the invisible, or else an accident befalls “normal” people, or a great shock occurs, and a crack forms in their minds, enabling them to perceive something of the Beyond. It is not I who say this, but C. G. Jung, Freud’s contemporary psychologist.
For the ancient Celts alone, for instance, the invisible and visible worlds were one and the same, and ghost stories were not considered a joke.
For clairvoyance, I think that someone with great intuition, knowledge of the human soul, and above all compassion for others, has a strong chance of being a medium, whether innate or not.
This site proves it. There are people of good will who lend their time and their talents altruistically (lemagicien, etc…).
And above all, who lift the spirits of people who have nothing left but the internet and the kindness of strangers to guide them through their misfortunes.
Good afternoon everyone, and have a good week.
Elvraïe

Thank you, dear Mamyol, for this account.

Hypersensitivity does help you to sense and feel things.

While I also believe that exercise can be a path to development, I am not convinced that a life crisis is necessary to develop these gifts.

Tom, I’m picking up on that sentence: a life crisis doesn’t develop these gifts, but a life crisis makes us ready to use them.

A tarot reader, when she gave me a consultation, saw that I had already suffered a lot in my life and told me that if I did clairvoyance (in addition to a job), I would help others and help myself.

I think that with one or more life events and by using one’s gifts (if one knows how to do so), it can help the person move forward in life and perhaps see things differently (since we know that we help others…).

…

Since last autumn, I was convinced that something serious would happen to a man in my family… before a specific date (an anniversary). I was afraid; that feeling, that intuition was so strong, I knew it was a death.

A few days before that exact date, my father died!

I knew it inside myself… I felt it without the cards, I wasn’t sure about the person.

Just by writing this… tears come to my eyes, because clairvoyance can be a double-edged sword… feeling the bad events for oneself as well, but worse is having to announce them to others by reading the cards, and there I must say that I am not ready to say the negative aspects…

ClaudiaC

Thank you very much for this “scientific” reference; I did not know that Jung dabbled in esotericism.

I really like this image of a crack or fissure through which one can see the beyond.

The image of the fault is very interesting; it is somewhat like the faults in the Earth's crust that, from time to time, reveal to us, as they open up, marvels (lava, geysers, pillows) but also disasters (volcanoes, eruptions).

Yes, it’s a fractal, a break that opens up and sometimes lets you glimpse something else.

So, to discover this, do you have to bang your head against the walls? Do you have to wait for a “shock”? Do you have to be born cracked?

I think that, like our good old earth, we are all a bit scarred. It is then enough to put your eyes in the right place, in the light, to see.

It is indeed the first vision, the most surprising one. Like Claudiac’s experience. The most surprising one, because it is often associated with a powerful phenomenon. As if the burning magma breaking the crust that separates us from the afterlife were strong enough to be overcome only by the love one bears for a loved one.

It is also this experience that—being too intense—can tip the balance.

I think we can prepare ourselves. Soften this crust, scrape it to sharpen your sensitivity and your gaze, or we can wait, with hope, for a shock.

In fact, those who experience this shock or are born “cracked” will think it is a gift. Those who learn and master these forces through patience and teaching will think it is something that can be acquired. But it seems to me that the result is the same in the end, isn’t it?

Your description reminds me of Lanzarote Do you know it?

an island that I find particularly beautiful precisely because it is very natural, rugged, and beautiful at the same time… with the sea (the ocean) and the sun as a bonus.