not to see me

There is a dream I have never forgotten. I was about 4 or 5 years old. Someone knocked on the door, and Mom went to open it. There was a big ghost (a large white sheet with holes for the eyes, nose, and mouth), just as a child would imagine it. In a very deep voice, it asked Mom where I was. She showed it the way and led it to my room. I was terrified and stopped breathing for fear that the ghost would see me. There were lots of machines in my room, and the ghost turned its back to me while performing some operations on those machines. I held my breath, afraid the ghost would see me. During the dream, my hand touched something under my bed, and I woke up very horrified. I had been touching a teddy bear under my bed. But this dream shook me deeply, and to this day, I keep questioning it, wondering why I can’t forget it. I’m 36 years old now! And it still comes back to my thoughts. Why? Please share your thoughts with me; maybe I’ll find an answer?

Hello quinol

I was drawn to your dream all the more because it was had by a child, so by you as a little girl.

The little girl you were must have been quite impressionable, and it seems that at the time you experienced fears and anxieties. The fact that you dream of her is that you were seeking for her to protect you in life.

The fact that this ghost is dressed in white is a good omen, possibly indicating wealth.

The fact that he speaks would seem to tell us that you should have listened to the advice of wise people.

Was there a good connection with your mother when you were a little girl? That ghost probably wanted to say, “Be good with your mother, listen to her.”

It is not strange that you remember this dream even though you were little, especially if it is linked, without your being aware of it, to an event that would have occurred when you were a child. Try to remember something that would have made an impression on you at the time; there are memories that do not fade.

I hope I've been able to shed some light on things for you.

Thank you for your response. I think it is related to a lack of emotional tenderness, because my mother is not at all affectionate and we have not had any moments of tenderness. I received a lot of affection from my father, but my mother is a woman who does not show these feelings and may not be able to express them. Yet, she is always ready to lend a hand, as she did for me today during my illness! Thank you very much.

Hello Quinolcompanion,

Dreaming of a ghost dressed in white is a sign of joy and happiness; it also means that you will find consolation.
You may also be too often neglecting the advice given to you.

Kind regards
The magician.

Thank you for your advice,

Hello Estelle,

I’m reaching out to you again regarding your dream. What you shared with me in a private message, I suspected. What you clarified in your post, I felt. That’s why I asked you whether you have a good connection with your mother and specified that this dream was linked to a past event. Your fears were that you would no longer be with your mother, due to a lack of tenderness.

Thank you for getting back to me; now I think I understand why I had that dream, and I believe that now I can finally forget it. Thank you very much!

Good evening Estelle,

I am delighted that you can now see things more clearly with this dream that has occupied your mind for so many years. May you truly forget it and enjoy harmonious moments with your mother.

Don't hesitate to contact me if needed.

Kisses

Thank you, I think I had this dream at the time because I was in foster care in foster families during my childhood up to the age of six; certainly, unconsciously, I was afraid of being permanently separated from my parents. But still, I don’t understand; I only saw my mother in this dream, and I have always interpreted it as a betrayal somewhere, I don’t know why. In any case, thank you very much for your interpretation!

Good evening Estelle,

Indeed, being in a boarding school at that age is very young for a little one who needs so much tenderness and stability. I don't know if you still hold a grudge against your mother for that difficult period. If so, forgive her; forgiveness completes the healing of the soul's wounds.

I better understand why I was feeling fear, dread

Now that you know the cause-and-effect relationships in this dream, forget about it.

Estelle, I can only understand you, having myself lacked tenderness, and I know the feelings of sadness that this generates.

kisses

Thank you so much for the advice. I have never held a grudge against my mother; in fact, I feel like she is trying to make up for lost time. I am not resentful because I live by faith and I believe in God the Eternal, our Father, and Jesus Christ, our Savior. However, I do not attend any church; my church is in my heart and my spirit. I do not trust human beings; they are too manipulative! Thank you a thousand times over! :-*

Good evening Estelle,

What you have written is very beautiful. It touches me deeply, all the more so because I share your spiritual thoughts. I am a believer like you, I have faith like you, and my church is my heart, where I leave a great place for Jesus, Mary, and the Divine. As for the human being, you are right; like you, I remain reserved.

Be happy, Estelle, you have a wonderful wealth.

Kisses :-*

Thank you very much, and I am very sincere. I believe that people who answer others' questions are wonderful people and have enormous hearts, because they offer their gifts without expecting anything in return, and it is wonderful to be able to bring comfort or a solution to someone who needs it. I have always sought out people who offer their gifts without expecting anything in return, because for me, that is proof that it is a gift from God! For Jesus, our Savior, did great things without expecting anything in return, just having faith and living according to the will of God, our Father. That is why I always try not to violate the laws of God, the Eternal, our Father, while living normally without having a nonchalant attitude, but by doing good around me whenever I can, wishing well to all those who deserve it, and hoping that the lost sheep can find their way back to the truth, as I did. Despite all the very hard trials in my life, I have never doubted, because it is impossible for me that God could abandon His children, in the name of Jesus Christ, our Savior!

Hello Estelle,

I open my computer this morning and the first post I read via my emails is yours. What joy I felt in realizing that it is possible to share so many spiritual values. It is true that one can experience great joy in giving of oneself to others and doing so without expecting anything in return. Just the satisfaction of bringing comfort to a person who needs it. Doing it with faith, humility, and spirituality.

Please share this faith and this love with us.

I wish you a good day.

Thanks for your message. I’d like to start a discussion thread about faith—what do you think?

Hello Estelle,

For my part, I would be delighted.

Above all, try to put it in the right category.

If you were embarrassed about the choice of section, not knowing exactly how you want to convey the message, you can do it under “outstretched hand”; I will ask our administrator if that is acceptable to them.

Thanks for your idea

kisses