misunderstanding

Good evening, The Magician,

I met a guy at my university a few weeks ago and he didn’t leave me indifferent. One evening, he told me he liked me, and a few days later we spent the night together, and he repeated that he really liked me.
But since then, I haven't heard much from him. I have to admit I don't know what to make of it anymore… Was he sincere?
What would it be best for me to do?

19 11 6

Thank you.

Hello Lou01,

The encounter with that guy at your university was primarily driven by a mutual physical attraction.
Spending a night together with someone is not necessarily synonymous with a love story, but rather with a desire or fantasy being fulfilled.
To answer your question, namely "Was he sincere?" At the time, yes, but I don't think he's a faithful man; rather, he's the type who accumulates conquests.
What should I do? My advisor definitely isn't chasing after him!

I wish you a good day and a good start to the weekend.
The magician.

I really don't know what to make of him; he came to check on me this weekend and today he kept looking at me. But apart from that, he's a bit cold... at least that's how I feel.
We had decided during the night we spent together that we would continue to see each other without committing to a relationship, and that we were free to see other people.
Except that he never suggests we meet just the two of us.

I would like to know whether I should move on and it would be best to stop things with him, or whether I should wait for him to take the initiative.
Is it because he’s shy and doesn’t dare to see me alone, or because he regrets what happened and wants to avoid me?
I'm really lost and he's just a friend, so I don't want to lose everything...

Thank you.

8 13 19

Hello Lou01,

The reading does indeed indicate a certain coldness and detachment on his part toward you.
I suppose he often looked at you, probably some kind of desire he didn't dare express.
I don't think he regrets what happened; besides, if he were shy, he would never have dared to spend that night with you.
You’d better move on, end this relationship that ultimately leads nowhere, and since it’s a friendship at its core, as you say, try to preserve that friendship and nothing more.

Have a good day
The magician.