evolution

Hello, magician,

I’ve been abroad for a week for a semester, and it turns out things aren’t going very well with the French people I’m with.

How do you see my relationships with them evolving? Is it simply because it’s just the beginning, or not?
My numbers are 10, 32, and 14.

Thank you

Hello Lou01,

These are relationships that can develop positively. As you say, it’s only the beginning, so you need to try to adapt to their lifestyle and, above all, reach out to them, integrate into the group, and you’ll see that everything will go well.

See you soon and have a good stay.
The magician.

I'm trying to make an effort and reach out to them, but I don't have the same personality, so I'm having a hard time fitting in!
I don't know how to do it.

Should I tell them, given that I already have a good friend with me?
What do they think of me? And what is it best for me to do?

13 6 19

Thank you

Hello Lou01,

What to do… Dare to step out of your shell, dare to step out of your reserve, dare to talk to others about your discomfort regarding the difficulty you feel in fitting in with the group.
No one in the world has the same character, yet everyone still tries to get along with others.
Believe in yourself again!
Telling them that you have a good friend with you is not the solution, because doing so makes it seem like you feel protected by that friend rather than by the group.
Seek out dialogue with others, integrate yourself into their activities; in short, don't stay in the background—assert yourself by getting involved in what they're doing!

Have a good day
The magician.