frustrated...

Hello Lemagicien,

It's been a while since I last visited the site.
Could you please tell me how many numbers I need to choose?

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Melahel

Hello Melahel,

For a clairvoyance question, I need 3 numbers to choose between 1 and 22 + a specific question!

See you soon and have a good late afternoon
The magician.

Good evening,

Thank you for your reply!

Before I ask my question, let me give you a quick update…
There was a rough patch in our relationship at the end of the year.
I did a bit of investigating and came across some rather unpleasant “things”...
A big discussion took place in early January. I know my husband lied to me about a lot of things during the reconciliation (I have proof, but I didn’t want to play all my cards…). Despite that, I’ve lost some of my trust and I can’t help but keep “investigating.”
So I’m upset, because I’m getting worked up… I feel betrayed, everything comes rushing back to the surface, and I find it hard to move on and act as if nothing happened.
I love my husband, but I don’t like being treated like an idiot.

May I take the liberty of asking you several questions?
I'm really at my limit…

1- I know that he exchanged many emails and text messages with another woman (or several). Did they meet, and did they have sexual relations?
My numbers: 18-14-12.

2- Does he still have exchanges with this or these people?
My numbers: 13-11-9.

3- I feel like my husband is staying with me out of pity. Does he still love me?
My numbers: 10-20-6.

4- Are we going to break up, or will I manage to “let go”?
My numbers: 4-7-6.

Thank you very much in advance for your answers; I’m really at my wit’s end…

See you soon.

Hello Melahel,

To answer your first question, yes, there were email or text exchanges with other women, but nothing more. I think he did it in a moment of weakness or simply to confide in someone, but there were no meetings or sexual encounters that followed.
Answer to your second question, in my opinion he no longer has any exchanges with this or any other women.
Given your third question, I would say that your husband still loves you, but since he is, to be honest, just as bewildered as you are by everything that is happening to you both and is unable to distinguish between the different aspects of the situation, a good, frank conversation between you could resolve things—pity has nothing to do with this scenario!
Honestly, I can’t see you two separating, but a serious conversation is absolutely necessary for you both to determine where your true priorities lie!
In short, you are both stubborn yet so alike, so know and dare to choose a constructive dialogue between the two of you.
In short, trust is earned, but give yourself this new chance, and let your husband understand that glitter blinds, but true love will always endure!
Trust each other, dare to trust yourselves, and stop spying on one another. A hint of jealousy is charming, but too much jealousy destroys the beauty of all love.

Good afternoon, and see you soon
The magician.

Hello Lemagicien,

Thank you very much for all these answers.

We do indeed need time to get back on our feet. We are aware of it, but we must do it.

And as you say, a long constructive conversation is once again needed.

You made me laugh when you said we are “two stubborn people.” Yet, I don’t feel that way, lol.

I will get back to you in a few days with some feedback.

Thank you so much again!