Is it possible to get a romantic relationship back?

Hello, magician,

For fear of seeming impetuous, I’m honestly attracting way too many men and ultimately I end up jaded. I tend to ultimately tell them all to go to hell lol
I would like to finally have a relationship that meets my expectations.
Do you think it is possible? And if so, within what timeframe? Have I already met this man without realizing it, or not?

Thank you

Good evening Leloo40,

In your case, since you say that you attract a lot of men, you need to start asking yourself why.
Is it your physique, your social success, your slightly rebellious and adventurous character, your nonchalance, or something else that attracts…?
You know, when you have everyone at your feet, it’s like success in the end, and in that regard, I agree with you: you end up jaded by everything, because when you look past that aura, you realize it’s all just glitter, but real life isn’t that, so what’s left after the makeup?
As for your expectations, you should let your heart speak, so yes, anything is possible. I can't tell you the timeframe, but I am certain that you have already met this man, the one who haunts your dreams somewhere, but you didn't pay attention to him because he wasn't a flashy man or someone who moves in circles where everything is just appearances.
Love is not something to be sought but rather encountered in all simplicity, because forming an idea or fantasy of love, hoping to find or stumble upon the perfect male, is an illusion!

Have a good evening and see you soon
The magician.

Thank you for this answer

To back up my initial comment a bit and respond to some of your remarks:
The physical appearance, yes, but very natural and completely without any frills, on the other hand
Social success, no, at least not in the sense of being a billionaire lol, but as an artist making a living from her art, yes, that certainly attracts a lot of attention. And yes, totally rebellious and adventurous, having traveled extensively and lived abroad. My life experience also plays a big role in my case. I attract people regardless of age, from 27 to 77 lol … just as much gigolos as highly educated men.
On the other hand, given my history and having been married for nine years as well, I am quite demanding and exacting. I’m not looking for the perfect guy; in fact, I’m not really looking at all. Some days I tell myself I’m perfectly fine on my own with my cats, while other days I think it would be more fulfilling to have a more meaningful emotional relationship than just a casual “sex” arrangement, because on that front, it’s certainly not hard to find, of course.
My main issue is that, having had an atypical path, I find it quite difficult to be attracted to someone with a basic path; I am inevitably drawn to passionate people... I know my problem lies more there... someone who is content with a subway, work, sleep life, without questioning anything, tires me out very quickly...
I feel like I'm in a vicious cycle where the men I'm interested in are often impossible relationships in our society... and those who would be accessible don't interest me...

P.S.: The sparkles, or the things that shine that you see, might be more the crystal I work with rather than the double meaning of “what shines”?

Hello Leloo40,

Thank you for the explanations about yourself; social success can manifest in many ways and, of course, not necessarily in financial terms.
In terms of love, we often tend to be interested in the impossible, and that is one of the reasons why we sometimes let our chance slip or fail to meet accessible people.
As for what shines, it could indeed be related to the crystal you are working with.

Have a good day
The magician.

Thank you for your additional response.