F. Virgo rising and H. Scorpio rising

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Hello everyone!
So here's the deal...
I met someone who is a Scorpio with a rising sign in Scorpio ten days ago, and the attraction was definitely there (a passionate weekend), but here’s the thing: I live in Zurich and he lives in Nantes… I’m a Libra with a rising sign in Virgo, and I’m capable of moving mountains if I feel there’s a relationship to pursue. My concern is that I think I scared him off by being too blunt in the 300 messages we exchanged in a week (we don’t beat around the bush). I had a 12-year relationship with a Scorpio, so I know them well, but I think I smothered this one by subtly seeking reassurance and making sure I wasn’t heading down a dead-end path… caught in my own game, I think about him all day long and would really like to make him obsessed with me. Thank you in advance for your advice, even though I know I won’t be hearing anything but positive things!

Hello Nolie,

The Scorpio sign needs freedom, independence, and on a sentimental level, a need for mystery. Being a Libra, you like to please and seduce; you are a sociable person, and with your Virgo rising sign, you still keep your feet on the ground…
300 messages exchanged in a week with a Scorpio can logically only make him run away, because, as you say, it suffocated him, since it is a sign that does not like being pressured or feeling obligated to…
Trying to make a Scorpio clingy is a misguided and illusory endeavor, because by nature rebellious, a Scorpio will do the exact opposite of what you wish for; it is a sign that despises anything that smacks of obligation, and in short, it will do things only when it feels like it!
If you have a question about this potentially evolving relationship, then ask me a specific question and I will have to choose 3 numbers between 1 and 22.

See you soon and have a good day
The magician.

Hello Lemagicien,

Thank you very much for this response.
Ca fait beacoup de messages c’est vrai, mais chaque fois que je lui demande s’il veut que je le laisse tranquille un peu il me répond que non! Hier j’ai même fini par lui dire que j’avais besoin de prendre de la distance parce que j’allais devenir trop possessive avec lui si nous continuons à être autant en contact. La distance géographique l’empêche de vouloir considérer une possible relation mais il prefere que je ne mette pas cette distance entre nous… je suis un peu perdue. Qu’attendre d’une telle relation et pourquoi se montre-t-il si “présent” s’il a autant besoin de liberté ?! Bon là c’est plus de la rhétorique… Voici ma question : Dois-je persévérer avec cet homme malgré les conditions difficiles ? Est-ce que notre avenir est de vivre ensemble? Mes chiffres : 7 - 13 - 21
Thank you very much!

Nolie

Hello Nolie,

Ah, the “NO” is typical of the Scorpio sign, as they don’t want you to leave them alone because they enjoy mystery and flirtation, yet they dislike harassment or an overly possessive attitude from the other person.
For the Scorpio, what matters is this form of seduction and sweet flirtation, but where he is ultimately the one directing the tempo and the dance.
He still shows up, though, because I assume you’re a woman who appeals to him and intrigues him at the same time.
Your reading says to persevere; you are on the right track, but dare to open up in constructive exchanges, and then a romantic future may be destined for you.
But avoid jealousy or possessiveness!
Well, try to leave him alone for a day or two, and you'll see that if he's really interested in you, I assure you he'll end up contacting you!
Keep in mind that with a Scorpio, everything is both simple and complicated, yet always fascinating!

Nice to meet you
The magician.

Thank you very much for this answer!
He wants to set the pace, but he forgets that I’m a Libra… we’re a bit sharper than we like to show.
I know the cat-and-mouse game all too well with my ex Scorpio. It’s exhausting in the long run…
Well, anyway, what I wanted to know is whether a future is possible or not. Thanks for the advice.

Have a good day!

Nolie

Hello Nolie,

A future is possible between you two, but know that the Scorpio will love and do everything to lead the dance!

Have a good day
The magician.