relationship question

Hello, magician.
I’m taking the liberty of writing to you because I could use your insight. Two weeks ago, I had a completely spontaneous encounter on the train. I was fascinated by this man and had to force myself not to look at him. Apparently, it was mutual, because at the end of the journey, he made up an excuse about having lost something to talk to me. To my great surprise, I gave him my phone number when he asked if I’d be up to seeing each other again (first time I’ve ever done that!). He texted me that very evening. We were supposed to meet last weekend, but I was sick; so I reached out to him on Tuesday, and he called me back on Wednesday so we could finally meet on Friday. But on Thursday evening and Friday at noon, I contacted him twice to set a meeting place, and he never replied! And I still haven’t heard anything! So I’d like to know if he’s going to get back in touch with me and whether there’s a chance of something between us, or if he just made a fool of me?
Here are my numbers: 3 - 7 - 13.
Thank you so much!

Hello Amfra282,

Your story about the train sounds like a mutual love at first sight that happened between you and that man, with mutual attraction.
I don't think this man was mocking you, because otherwise he wouldn't have texted you from the very first evening, which means he really wanted to see you again, given that he called you on Wednesday.
I rather have the impression that he had a scheduled appointment.
Send him a text this Sunday to wish him a good Sunday, telling him, for example, that it’s the first time this has happened to you and that you are unsettled by this encounter, and that you are still up for a date with him.
Seeing each other again makes a story between you two possible, because such encounters are not ordinary—they are both surprising and beautiful!
Keep me posted…

Happy Sunday
The magician.

Hello, the magician,

Thank you very much for your reply.
I’m reaching out to you for the next steps! Actually, on Sunday, I didn’t dare write: I had prepared an email that I didn’t dare send because I was afraid it would come across as a “settling of scores” if I asked him why he hadn’t recontacted me. So I let it go: but since Friday, the day we were supposed to meet, I’ve noticed that he regularly updates his Facebook, and since he had asked to be my friend, he could have just as easily written to me, but he never did. As soon as Monday came, unable to hold back any longer, I sent a nice little text message, basically saying: “Still no news, are you playing dead?” but he still hasn’t replied to this day. I am both very sad and very troubled and annoyed because I don’t understand this behavior at all, and I no longer know how to act! It’s strange to get someone’s contact details, add them as a friend on Facebook, stand them up, and then never hear from them again (while still keeping them as a friend on Facebook, without ever meeting up)! For my part, I would really like to see him again because I truly feel like I have something to live through with him. I believe in signs, and on the day of that encounter, I really felt my angels by my side. So I tell myself that it can’t be for nothing.
So, I’m asking the question again: following this text message, will he finally contact me so we can see each other again? Do you feel that a relationship will be possible with him, or should I turn the page on this extraordinary “encounter”? My numbers: 2 7 11

Thank you so much, I'm so lost!

Hello Amfra282,

It was a lovely encounter between you and that man during the train trip, but in the end, you know nothing about him, and vice versa.
I suppose this man added you as a friend on Facebook to get to know you better, since going through emails isn't always easy for people who don't have a particular or private connection.
The text “Still no news, are you playing dead?” I find that a bit intrusive, like a demand for an explanation, since he is not obligated to report back to you about anything. So it doesn’t surprise me that he hasn’t replied to you.
Therefore, it is better to reach out to him via Facebook, as if he doesn’t reply to your texts, it may also be due to his privacy.
In my opinion, he will contact you via the social network Facebook before arranging a meeting.
Yes, a relationship between the two of you is possible!

Have a good day
The magician.

Hello LeMagicien,
I’m getting back to you, still regarding the same matter. A lot has happened and you were right: I finally met him, after numerous “no-shows” on his part. But for that, I had to put him a bit on the spot because every time, he gave me a date and on the very day, no news! So I ended up clearly texting him that I thought we would never meet because he always had better things to do and strangely, it must have given him a kick in the pants because we met the next day for the whole afternoon. The date went wonderfully, it was as if we had known each other forever. So we went out together. Then we were supposed to see each other again during the week, and no news despite my few calls or texts! And the following weekend, he contacts me like a flower! So I saw him again on Sunday, and explained to him that he had really disrespected and hurt me, and that I had even decided not to see him anymore. He looked surprised. We talked and again, the afternoon went really wonderfully. We were even making little “plans” together. It was Sunday 10 days ago and despite texts on Monday, I have had no news since!!! (because I decided not to chase him anymore) I am completely lost because of the huge gap between the moments we spent together, and his silences. I really don’t understand and wonder if he is making fun of me. He told me he had stopped working to take care of his father who had 11 heart attacks, but at the same time he tells me he works all the time on various plans, he sees people all the time, in short, it seems strange to me. I no longer know if I can trust him.
What do you think? Is he going to come back to me, and are we really going to build something serious together, or is he hiding things from me and making fun of me, with no intention of going any further? (In short, should I try to get him out of my head?) This is the first time I've felt this way, and I'm truly at a loss because when we meet, it feels like it's just meant to be.
My numbers are: 3 9 7
Thank you in advance.

Hello Amfra282,

Thank you for your travel update!
I don't think this man is mocking you, but in my opinion, he's more of someone who acts when he feels like it, and you, being a bit possessive at times, it remains a bit of a cat-and-mouse game.
As for him having to take care of his father, I can understand that and it is honorable of him, but on the other hand, I notice that you say almost nothing about him or regarding his professional activities, past life, etc.…
For him to be trusted, he needs to open up a bit more, and for that, we need to meet and have a constructive dialogue.
Yes, he will get back to you, as you will see each other again; it’s still too early to say for the projects you are building together.

Have a good day
The magician.