What are his intentions?

Good evening Lemagicien,

I would like to know X's intentions toward me. Is he serious, or is he simply looking for a fling?
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Thank you, and see you soon!

Hello Bettina44,

X seems to be about the same age as you, and I think his intentions toward you are sincere, but he’s a man who has a hard time opening up or confiding in others, yet what he’s looking for is apparently to move forward in a positive way.
In short, give him a chance.

Have a good day
The magician.

Hello Lemagicien,

Thank you for your response.
For now, no news from X. But I wonder if he isn’t married.
Anyway, I’m not going to follow up with him; we’ll see if he gets back to me, and I’ll ask him then!

Happy Sunday!

Good evening Lemagicien,

X got in touch again, we had a bit of a back-and-forth by email, and he told me he’s married, and asked me if I believe in male/female friendship.

What should I make of it? Is he just looking for a friend, or is he testing the waters to see if I’m interested in more?

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Thank you for your help, and have a good evening!

Hello Bettina44,

The fact that X asked you whether you believe in male-female friendship? For me, it means, “Even though I am married, it will not prevent my friendship or the deeper feelings I have for you.” So, in short, he wanted to tell you that he hopes you accept this situation.
In short, he is a man who will never leave his partner and who, it seems to me, is looking for a friendship or a confidante in you.

Have a good day
The magician.

Hi,

I’m going through my various questions, with the benefit of hindsight, to give you feedback.

So regarding X, he was really just looking for friendship.
We haven’t had the chance to see each other again, but we stay in regular contact by email or phone.
And we hope to be able to grab a drink with friends one of these days!

See you later!