LOYALTY?

Good evening Lemagicien,

Tonight I’m wondering about my friend who went on vacation (with his wife, of course...); I’ve had little news since he left and I’m wondering if he’s having an affair behind my back??? (besides his wife)... 3 digits 7 - 14 - 22

Good evening to you

Hello Evalys63,

You haven't heard much from your friend, but at least he's letting you know somewhere that he's still thinking of you, even though he's gone on vacation with his wife.
Honestly, I don't think he's seeing someone else behind your back…

Have a good day and don't overthink it!
The magician.

Thanks Lemagicien, but… I haven’t heard anything in 10 days!!! Why???

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Good evening to you

Hello Evalys63,

I would say he is stuck there on vacation and doesn't really have a free moment to call you or leave a message without arousing suspicion, so be patient... Or else, leave him a voicemail so he can see that you are thinking of him.

Have a good day
The magician.

Thanks Lemagicien!!! Have a nice evening

Hello Lemagicien,

I’m reaching out to you again about my relationship with this married man. Yesterday, a medium read my cards, and basically, she says he doesn’t love me, that he actually doesn’t give a damn, and that I’m wasting my time with him??? He’s a womanizer, and the harm he’s done to his wife, he’ll inflict on me too. He only thinks about himself; he’s made his wife unhappy her whole life, and he doesn’t want to divorce solely because he doesn’t want to share all the assets and money they acquired together!! On top of that, his wife is a cardiac patient and has already had three heart attacks, so she even went so far as to tell me that he’s waiting for her to pass away!!! Isn’t that horrible!! I’m devastated right now…

I'm asking you whether it's true that I'm nothing more to him than his mistress and that I have nothing to expect from him, especially not a shared life??? You can tell me everything, you know.

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Thank you - Kind regards,

Hello Evalys63,

What that medium told you doesn't really hold up in my opinion, because a woman who has been hurt and made unhappy would logically not agree to go on a holiday with that kind of man.
On the other hand, you’ve known him for a while now, and any woman with her sixth sense and feminine intuition would have already detected certain signs that this medium is describing to you, whereas I think that’s not the case.
In these times of economic crisis, it is certain that a divorce is likely to undermine his financial and material situation, just as it is that of his wife, and they may both suffer significant losses.
But from there to this medium telling you that she wishes for your wife to pass away, that is something I cannot condone, as it is cruel and unprofessional!
Ask yourself the right questions, such as whether he is already having difficulty, making you unhappy, etc.
For now, and given that he is still not divorced, it is certain that your relationship falls into the lover-mistress category.
Given the reading, it is mainly the absence that becomes apparent through the communication or contact between you two, but you will hear news from him soon, and it is up to you to clarify things with him!
Keep your free will and don't let yourself be influenced by harmful comments!

Have a good day
The magician.

Thank you, Lemagicien, you have a kind soul... so I followed your advice to ask myself the right questions about him, and I must say that after thinking about it all this afternoon:

1. Yes, I did indeed notice signs of what she described; here are a few: he is always looking at women, even in my presence. You might say there’s nothing wrong with that, but his looks are accompanied by verbal remarks like “nice little bundle!” and that in front of me. I asked him several times to make a decision about us, and his only response was, “You know it’s not possible; if you’re not happy with things the way they are, then we’re done.” I recently found out from my friend that he had sent her texts. There was nothing wrong with them on the surface, since she showed them to me the next day, but he didn’t tell me about it! And when I confronted him about it, he accused my friend of trying to ruin our relationship… I left him over that, but it made him furious and he insisted that I come back, which I did!!!
   He invited me to a restaurant to make up, and when the bill came, he said, "Oh my, it's so expensive here!!!" He talks about money a lot, which really annoys me... I also asked him if he was in love with me, to push him to commit to me coming back to him when I'm fed up with him not taking a stand; his answer was: "I don't know"...

So, for everything I’ve just told you, YES, he has already hurt me and YES, he has already made me unhappy. You’re going to tell me that in cases like that, I should just leave him, right??? There you go, magic friend, I’ve told you everything!!! What do you think now…???

I wish you a lovely evening and say goodbye until soon, while thanking you for the time you dedicate to answering all of us here!

Hello Evalys63,

The fact that he allows himself to look at or hit on other women in your presence, making verbal remarks to them, is a sign of disrespect toward you.
His "That's not possible" is also a sign that he does not intend to divorce, because apparently he is too close to you, as the medium told you.
His “If you don’t like it this way, then we’re done” — at that point, I ask myself: where is the love?
Besides, he doesn't even know if he's in love with you…
That's what I think, and here is my personal opinion: if I were a woman, that's the kind of man I would run away from!
But I also know that you can't command love.
In short, you should give him an ultimatum: “Either he commits or it’s goodbye.”

I wish you a good Sunday!
The magician.

Thank you, Lemagicien; now a test of strength awaits me, for he will receive the ultimatum, but first I know he will not believe it, given that I have set one for him on several occasions and I have always come back. The test of strength will be to no longer give in to him this time; I hope I will be able to do it.

Have a good Sunday, I'll keep you posted.