In love or not?

Hello,

I’m here to ask a question about a man with whom I had an affair. I’d like to know if he’s going to come back to me, whether he has feelings for me, or if he just wanted to have fun.
7 - 14 - 17

Thank you very much!
Doudouda

Hello Doudouda,

I don't think you will see that man again; it was just a fling between the two of you, nothing more. He is a smooth talker, but he has never been in a position to offer a concrete commitment.
So I advise you to turn the page.

Have a good end of the afternoon
The magician.

Hello Lemagicien,

I am disappointed…
Do you still think we’ll see each other again as friends, or not at all? 7 - 3 - 12

Thank you and have a good day!

Good evening Doudouda,

Better to be disappointed in the moment than to regret it later!
As friends, yes, you will have the chance to see each other again, but as I said before, I don’t think you should expect a romantic return on his part.

Good evening and weekend
The magician.

Thank you Lemagicien, and of course I’m disappointed, but I wasn’t expecting a flattering response!

He’s someone I really like and hope to keep in my life, even if it’s just as friends. I’d be sad to lose him completely, so your answer reassured me.

Can you tell me if we’ll see each other again soon? 5 - 14 - 9

Thank you again!

Hello Doudouda,

I can see you staying friends and seeing each other again, but as for seeing each other soon, I don’t think so… I’d say more like around the end of this year.

Have a good end of the afternoon
The magician.

Hello Magician,

I would like to ask you a question about this theme, whether it’s romantic or not, in relation to my story.
I have been in love with a man for two years. What I have experienced with him is not ordinary. We saw each other less than a week ago and made love again. He then told me that he wanted to pursue a committed relationship with me, which I had been hoping for from the start, but a few days later he retracted his statement, telling me it had been a mistake on his part and that he was looking for something else. Previously, he had told me several times that I only inspired desire in him and that it seemed incongruous. In love or not? Actually, more importantly, will this situation eventually evolve between us or not, and how?
My numbers: 1 - 3 - 8

Thank you for your response,
Alright, it's your turn, Magician

Hello Houlaoupss,

To be perfectly frank, I can tell you that this man is not in love with you!
He has sexual desire for you, but nothing more. Besides, think about it: “He told you he was looking for something else.” What kind of talk is that… Aren’t you a person, or what?
Yes, a committed relationship is what he wants, but not for the right reasons!
It's a situation or type of relationship that can't bring you any fulfillment, so in my opinion it will end between you and him.
Loving someone is one thing, but when the sexual aspect is prioritized over genuine feelings, it’s not worth continuing, so it’s best to move on.

Have a good weekend
The magician.