My romantic future

Hello Lemagicien,

What can you tell me about my romantic future with Anthony, born on January 4, 1973?
Here are my numbers: 14, 22, 4, 13, 8
Best regards
Veroptique

Hello Veroptique,

Anthony is a Capricorn, in the second decan, and apparently he’s not an easy person to live with, as it seems to me that everything must go according to his four wishes; in other words, in terms of relationships, he may have a tendency to play the cop, which can cause quite a few problems in the couple in the long run.
Otherwise, the status quo remains.

Best regards
The magician.

Thank you Lemagicien, but I don't feel that he acts like a cop; things are going very well both on the emotional side and regarding our future plans. We talk a lot and we're getting to know each other better that way too.

It would rather be with my son that he would tend to want things to go his way, but I suppose that’s because he has no children. What can you tell me about that?

Best regards.

Veroptique

Good evening Veroptique,

As for his relationship with your son, it remains tense because they are unable to understand or communicate with each other, each of them holding firm to their positions, and your son rebelling against any authority and refusing to accept that of your partner.
So be patient, listen to both, but inevitably take sides, neither for one nor the other.

Best wishes to you and a good end to your evening
The magician.

Hello Lemagicien,

Thank you for your response regarding my partner and my son. It's not always easy, but I try not to take sides. Do you think I should sometimes leave them alone together so they can get to know each other better?

Best regards.

Veroptique

Hello Veroptique,

Leaving them to themselves to engage in or share a common activity or passion, or for you to take an interest in what your son likes, could be a good idea, as through this channel they could certainly learn to get to know each other well.

Best regards
The magician.

Thank you Lemagicien, I am patient and I keep hope.

Veroptique

Good evening Lemagicien,

Still no progress between my partner and my son, and yet we’ve been together for two years now. What can you advise me? Here are my numbers: 4, 12, 10, 6, 8.

Best regards. Veroptique.

Hello Veroptique,

Between your partner and your son, the situation remains a matter of power dynamics, as neither of them wants to lose face, and consequently, no agreement is possible at the moment.
What patience would advise you is to try to let them sort things out among themselves, in other words, to step back.

Have a good day
The magician.

Good evening Lemagicien,

It’s not easy at all, because if my son is disrespectful, I have to step in, and vice versa if my partner attacks him. Anyway, I’m trying to find advice from people around me, but I have to admit I’m out of options now.

Best regards.

Veroptique

Hello Veroptique,

If your son is disrespectful, if it annoys your partner—which I can understand—and if you have to intervene between the two, power dynamics inevitably arise.
I advise you to take your son aside for a real conversation with him, because I have the impression that your son does not accept your partner, as he is a man who entered your life out of love, but your son does not accept that.
So it's up to you to ask your son the right questions: what does he really want?
You made a life choice, you love your partner and vice versa, so your son has to accept it. It’s as if your son wants you to choose between him and your partner, and that is unacceptable!
Otherwise, as a suggestion, try seeing a psychologist with your son.

Have a good day
The magician.

Good evening Lemagicien,

I do think I will go see a psychologist with my son, and I want my partner to participate in that as well, because they don’t understand each other. I asked my son the questions. He wants me to be happy, but he keeps talking to me about the time I was with his father. I’ll keep you posted on any future developments, and thank you again for your quick replies.

Best regards. Veroptique.