Hello,
I am new to this site, so please forgive my lack of familiarity with the members' customs in advance.
My question:
I fell in love with my best friend. I’m not talking about a simple attraction, a need for tenderness, or a desire to seduce; I’m talking about true love, the kind that makes you feel like you can fly, that makes you think about shared plans, marriage, and having a child…
I “confessed” my feelings to her (without being able to hold back… it just came out on its own, without any premeditation, my heart spoke and my head wasn’t able to stop it…) it didn’t make her run away; she told me it had touched her, that she found it beautiful, and that no one had ever spoken to her like that before… BUT (there’s always a BUT) she refused to live two relationships at the same time (she’s been with someone for a year and things aren’t going too well between them; it will end one day, but she’s unable to hurt anyone and therefore doesn’t have the strength to break up).
Asking her if she wanted to create something with me once her current story was finished, she gave me the famous “I don’t know,” which can mean:
- Yes, but I'm not saying anything so you don't get carried away.
I really don't know
No, but since I like you, I don't want to tell you so as not to hurt you.
In short... I want to get back together with her and start a real family life again... will it happen, and if so, when? What should I do or not do?
Thank you for your response
