I'm suffering a lot

Hi magician
This concerns my relationship with a man who is not available; our relationship was built on a long friendship, and our love has evolved over time.

I'm in the process of distancing myself from my boyfriend; he won't react or take the step to leave his wife. I'm very sad.

I find it hard to bear that I have cut off contact, but he gives me no hope; I can feel that he is stuck. I have a marriage proposal from a family member, and when I tell him about it, he does nothing in return, as if he is just dragging things out for no reason. When I bring up the discussion about his separation from her, he tells me it’s not the right time and that he needs to have the money.
Between us, this excuse cannot convince me; at the very least, he should not be living under the same roof as her while waiting to start the divorce proceedings. I am taking all of this very badly, Sad. I am making sacrifices and pushing others aside for him, yet he sacrifices nothing. He only gives me empty words without any real action. His behavior makes me doubt him too much.

He doesn't even dare think about leaving her, and here I am, enduring it and being the victim of the situation.

Here are the numbers: 2-4-18-21

Thanks a lot

Hello Ame,

For my part, I don’t see this man leaving his wife; in short, you’re wasting your time with him. However, he does want to maintain this mistress-lover relationship, without offering you any commitment.

Happy Sunday
The magician.

Hello magician

Thank you for your reply. Yesterday, I had a heavy and stormy conversation with him. We discussed at length, and he told me to give him a chance to take a step forward, saying he would do his utmost to unblock the situation within one to two months at most, and that the money holding him back

He will do what is necessary so as not to lose me, because I was very firm and hard on him. I gave him one last chance; if he does not resolve the situation within the timeframe he gave me, he will lose me. I made him feel guilty for wanting to spend time and have good moments with me, but he swears on his mother’s head that this is not his intention and that he will prove me wrong.

I hope he’s sincere, because we’ve been through the best and the worst, and he asked for one last chance. Two or three months isn’t much; I’ll see how it goes, and if it doesn’t work out, he’ll have lost me forever.

Thank you, magician. I will keep you posted.

This is my last question, magician.

I believe in your clairvoyance; they have generally all been positive. Thank you for enlightening me on this last question.

My boyfriend disagrees with his wife and they have regular fights; he suffers a lot with her, and he takes great care of me, showing me his love and doing everything to leave her, as she makes him suffer through her meanness and neglect of him.

He asks me to wait for him and says he wants to make things official with me after his divorce. He needs a little time to achieve financial stability to start the process, as he is enduring a lot in his marriage, and I am also enduring this situation.

Will I have any hope while waiting for him? I am sure of his love for me; I can see it in his actions.

Please enlighten me; I would be very grateful.

Hello Soul,

Regarding your relationship with your boyfriend, yes, there is hope, but you should both set a goal in terms of dating, as has he already initiated the divorce proceedings? Otherwise, it can only remain at the stage of promises, and that is not what you want, is it?!

Have a good day
The magician.

We love each other a lot, magician. On many occasions, I have tried to distance myself, and each time he convinces me that his love for me is great, that his problems with his wife date back a long time, and that he is looking for a way to get rid of her. The financial aspect is what holds him back from asking for a divorce; he has to put up a lot of money. However, if he pressures her or if she agrees, it will make things easier for him, as he strongly suspects that she is cheating on him.

Can you tell me if he will find her with someone else, or if he will start the proceedings himself?
initiative, he tells me it's close but I'm getting impatient; I gave him a deadline until the end of December 2012 to sort everything out because I can't wait any longer, and he's afraid I'll distance myself and tells me he's not just sitting around

What do you think, magician? In your opinion?

Thanks a lot