professional and relational

Good evening, Ladysally
My direct manager is an older woman, and I’m unable to work with her in a trusting manner. I’m always afraid she’ll harm me, and I don’t understand why. Can you see anything about this?
Besides, I have the impression that she is trying to isolate me and that she absolutely does not want me to get along well with the new manager I mentioned to you in a previous message... someone I am now afraid to trust.

Can you help me sort things out? It’s making me sad and crazy.

Good evening,
shanti

Hello dear shantirainbow,
It goes without saying that she is afraid and trying to isolate you because he is new and would appreciate you more than she does, which would also harm her. You are wary of each other. She is in a better position than you due to her status as the boss.
Sure, there will be changes in terms of the relationship between you. Tensions are to be expected and obstacles will need to be overcome. Above all, do not trust either one of you. Remain courteous and professional in your work, and we will see what happens in three months.
Best regards
Ladysally

Good evening, ladysally,
When you tell me to trust neither of them, is that a way of advising me not to make a mistake and not to think about using one against the other? I take this first piece of advice and I will practice staying professional. I will leave both of them in the arena to make the decisions they need to make.
Or are both of them planning to use me? So would they be insincere with me?
Thank you, ladysally, and have you been able to read that you had no reason to make that grrrrrrrr sound?
shanti

Hello shantirainbow,
Indeed, don't make a fuss, but also let the two of them be in their own space.
Chefs always use their staff anyway.
Big kisses
Ladysally

Good evening, ladysally,
You are as pretty as a fairy-tale princess!
And I’d really like to meet a handsome prince Finally, a prince to my taste who also finds me to his liking. and that it be SIMPLE::::: at least to start a relationship…
Could this happen to me before the summer of 2012...
Goodnight kisses, Ladysally!
shanti

Good evening Shanti,

Hi hi, thank you for the kind compliments, hi hi, it’s not an exaggeration, I’m still at my age after all.

Loneliness is not an incurable disease, and this period will not last forever; everything changes, everything moves, nothing is fixed.

Yes, you will meet someone, but I can’t give you a date right now.

Kisses