It's painful.

It hurts, Ladysally!!!
How do I stop being in love? How do I keep my heart from closing up? Is the solution to cut off all contact with this man, whom I see as a source of support?
Should I talk to him about it, or should I work through it internally with the help of other people?
Today, the idea that he is no longer part of my circle feels like a tear, but will I cut him out of my life so I stop suffering?

Dear shantirainbow,

Yes, I understand you perfectly; it’s not easy to forget (when you love someone), and sometimes you never forget, but you learn to live with that feeling of never having forgotten, while still living your life and moving on to another relationship.
Hahaha, I don't know if I explained myself well?

You need to step back and gain some perspective, ideally by taking a vacation, because you are still hesitating whether to do everything to stay together or to let him go and do nothing to keep him around. Don’t worry, you will get over him despite the fire burning inside you; you are questioning yourself by weighing the pros and cons. You need inner peace and moral independence. Unfortunately, despite our best efforts, situations change and deviate from their course, and we must accept changes in direction, in relationships, and even in the men in our lives.

Best regards
Ladysally