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Good evening, LadySally,

My name is Valérie, born on February 25, 1968. I met Yves this summer; he was born on May 19, 1962. I have feelings for him but did not dare to confess them for fear of being wrong. I have never managed to figure out what he might think of me… He has now cut off all communication with me for the past month following a misunderstanding. Do you think he holds a grudge against me and that I will never see him again? Was he waiting for a confession that he himself did not express to me? Am I under the illusion that he might have also developed something for me?

Please do enlighten me; I am struggling with it and feel as though I am missing something truly great.

Good evening.

Valérie.

Good evening vadu29,
No, it’s not his or her fault, nor yours… you’re both afraid of the feelings you don’t dare to express, each fearing being rejected. Admit your feelings and let the chips fall where they may, so that everyone can move forward without making reproaches—neither to yourself for not having tried, nor to the other for having taken a chance.
Best regards
Ladysally