love and singlehood * * * ok

I’ve been single for quite a while, and I’d like to know if I’m going to find love (I’m trying to put all the odds in my favor, but so far, the few relationships I’ve had haven’t brought me anything tangible).
Thank you

Good evening pineapple,
I think you haven't really tried to put all the odds in your favor!!!
I think you are shy and you don't trust others enough, and therefore you have few appointments and few relationships.
You need some coaching to sort out your wardrobe, um, I hope I’m not being rude, but it just came to me out of the blue.
You don’t need many experiences to be happy; all it takes is a good man or a brave woman to be happy. I see you finding love, but first you need to go through a makeover, some coaching, and even lose a little weight.
Best regards
Ladysally

I just read your response… actually, none of this really fits me. I am someone who takes very good care of myself, and everyone thinks I dress quite well; in fact, I run a successful fashion blog. Now, if relooking means dressing provocatively and vulgarly, then yes, I am not like that. Besides, I weigh 50 kilograms at 1.65 meters tall, so I really have no weight issues (people even find me a bit skinny…). Are you sure you have a gift for clairvoyance? Allow me to doubt it…

Good evening pineapple,
All the better then if you’re well-dressed and slim. I’ve seen the opposite!!!

I saw the clothes but also the weight... the clothes, you're a stylist, so what?? You're thin, so what about the weight??? So I'm not off the mark: you can't please everyone with your style or what you like, and having 50 kilos doesn't necessarily please everyone either.

Can you ask me a question and I’ll answer it

You need some coaching to improve your wardrobe, um, I hope I’m not being rude, but it just hit me out of the blue.

You don't have to be provocative and vulgar to be liked, but apparently your style isn't well-received, so you need to get or take a different perspective than your own.

Kind regards
Ladysally

I like my clothes, I find myself pretty the way I am, so I’m not going to change everything. There will always be people who don’t like it…
I’m not a stylist at all; I just like fashion and I’m interested in it, so I don’t think I’ll have any issues on that front—it’s not like I wear sweatpants or shapeless clothes every day.
As for weight, you yourself said that I needed to lose a little weight, so you saw that I was fat, which is absolutely not the case. I have absolutely no weight problems (which is actually my great luck, as I can eat whatever I want without fear of gaining weight). After that, if I have to be obese to have a boyfriend, well, I prefer to stay single, because at least, at my 50 kilos, I like myself, which would not be the case if I weighed 100.
And in the end, you give me a completely generic piece of advice, and you haven’t told me about my future, you haven’t told me whether I’m going to meet someone… so, this answer really disappoints me…

Hello pineapple,

I see that you are full of yourself!!!

You have to read the whole thing before saying you didn’t get an answer:
I can see you finding love, but you first need to go through a makeover, some coaching, and even lose a little weight.

If it’s not losing a little weight, it’s gaining weight. With you, it’s always the extreme: I’m well-dressed, I’m slim, I won’t dress provocatively, I won’t gain weight… etc. Do whatever you please.

Best regards
Ladysally

I don't find the last remark very nice, but you know what, I prefer to laugh it off. I'll manage to find love on my own, don't worry about it, but I'm not about to come back here or advertise this forum. You were wrong, that's all, at least have the honesty to admit it, clairvoyance is not an exact science.

Hello pineapple,
In clairvoyance, one must not engage in flattering clairvoyance, and of course, I am not pleasant in your eyes.
You will find someone for that, I am not mistaken, and that is the question, and I have answered you. How can you say that I was wrong??? In one day, wowwwwwww, the result is glaring…
The forum has been around for a long time and will continue to exist, and fortunately, I am not the voice of the forum.
You are free to come and go wherever and whenever you want. But if you don't want my clairvoyance, no big deal, go to whoever is willing to play along with your game.
Best regards
Ladysally

I am locking this thread, I have answered the question!!!
My time is precious, and so is everyone else's.