Do I have a "gift"?

Hello,
I've finally decided to talk about what's been happening to me, as I have so many questions, and it would be great if you could help me find answers. So, I'm 28 years old, and my first "vision" occurred 10 years ago. It was almost nothing; I was at a party and was worried that one of my exes might be there. When I arrived, I was told he wouldn't be coming, and then he called to confirm he couldn't make it. I heard myself say, "He's coming, watch out" (even though I had nothing to fear, apparently). It was a certainty, and indeed, two hours later, he was there, and he did more or less "harass" me all day... Anyway, it was quite disorienting. At 24, I had a vision in my sleep of someone very dear to me; she was very thin and very pale, and a voice told me she was dying of cancer. Two days later, her daughter called to tell me that her mother had just been diagnosed with cancer and had only two months to live... Since then, I've had "visions" about twice a year. Three days ago, my sister called to tell me she was breaking up with her boyfriend and gave me the reason. That night, while sleeping, I heard a voice telling me she had broken up for a different reason, and it gave me that other reason. The next day, I called my sister to ask, and she was stunned because I was right. Anyway, all of this to say that I don't know what to do. If I really do have "visions," why are they so rare? And why have I only had them regularly for the past four years? Can I develop them? If so, should I? Can I "order" them? I'm completely lost, please help me.
Thank you for reading this message,
Sandie

Hello Sandie,

Above all, don't worry, stay calm. Reading your account, I see my own experience reflected in it.
I don't know whether we can call our abilities to feel and discover gifts; likewise, I would be inclined to interpret this potential for mediumistic abilities.
It is a gift from heaven, and every gift is a providence that must be accepted. I understand you; it must not be easy to realize that our feelings always bring up sad events that, moreover, come true. Like you at first, I was somewhat frightened, and over time I have learned to control my emotions when I receive these messages.
A strong spirituality helps to master, protect, and develop this mediumship. As for me, I have never commanded my perceptions as you point out in your question; it is a matter of fact. These signals come naturally.

Don't feel lost. If you need help, I will be or we will be there to support you, don't hesitate.

Hello Sandie,

You need to know that most visions or flashes are weird, often foreshadowing tragedies.
They are often fragments of images or colors that one perceives; it is an ability to see or to feel what others do not see.
If you’ve had it for four years, something must have marked you at that point in your life; for some, it’s due to a trauma experienced in childhood, while others may have such perceptions following an accident, etc.
It doesn't develop and it can't be commanded; it simply comes like that, it's episodic, and it also shows that you must be a very sensitive person.
If you feel so lost after these events, maybe you should turn to the spiritual and prayer.
Additional information: you must never mess with the paranormal!

See you soon
The magician.

Hello Lemagicien,
What do you mean by Additional information: you should never mess with the paranormal!

Do you mean letting it come without trying to distort it?
Trust what you see? Even if it's negative?

Why don't we have positive flashes?
And why are premonitory dreams mostly negative? And why do we wake up in a sweat?

Fortunately, I have had two positive premonitory dreams…

ClaudiaC

Hello Claudiac and the magician,
Thank you for your replies! After reading your messages, I suppose I should just let things take their course and not worry too much. However, it is true that each time it involved negative events, which is rather disorienting because I feel almost responsible for what happens, even though I know I have nothing to do with it. Claudiac, are your premonitions more frequent than mine? Why are mine so rare? Because once every six months or so seems rare to me, and yet they are so real and not vague at all; each time they are clear, auditory or visual affirmations.

Hello Sandie,

I haven't always had negative feelings; I've also had positive feelings about pleasant things that have happened.

There is no rhythm or regularity to the sensations; it varies. Sometimes I experience sensations for weeks on end, and at other times it’s calm and nothing happens.

So live in peace, be serene, especially spiritually

Thanks, Josy! Has the frequency increased with age, or is it unrelated? When you experience things, do you tell the people involved, or do you keep them to yourself?
Sandie

Hello Sandie and Claudiac,

What I mean is that we should let things come naturally, without trying at all costs to force them or to ignore them.
Trust what you see, while remaining objective, even if it is negative.
I suppose we often have negative flashes because, without meaning to, we enter the unconscious of the other person, into the dark and forbidden side of another’s soul.
I sometimes have positive flashes, but it’s true that most of the time they’re negative and they often turn out to be right, which is quite disorienting…

The magician.

Hello everyone,
Sandie: I don’t have them often, but when I have premonitory dreams, they happen just as you describe: Because it happens only once every six months or so, I find it rare, and at the same time, they are so real and not blurry at all; each time, they are assertions, either auditory or visual.
I had one very clear positive dream that turned out to be true in reality.
The dream of losing the rings disturbs me, as it is repetitive. (cf. Premonitory dreams).
I had another dream that I wrote down… it’s very clear, very precise, but maybe it will never come true in reality…

In any case, in dreams, our unconscious tells us things… rather peculiar ones, which must be taken with great caution.

Why negative, LeMagicien? Why not all positive?

ClaudiaC

Dear Sandie,

I don't know if you read my first message; if you'd like, try rereading it—it's located right after your first message, where you describe your experience.

In this field, there is no rule. For my part, I have not noticed a higher frequency with age. There are periods when it manifests more frequently than others.
If, in my heart and conscience, I feel it is important that a person be prepared for a potential trouble on the horizon, I speak to them in such a way that they themselves come to think about and pay attention to what lies ahead, by subtly feeding them information without unduly worrying them. Using the right words at the right time, all of this must be done with great love and psychological insight, which is why having a spiritual dimension is so important. I readily admit that it is quite difficult.

Hello everyone,

Dear friend, if you wish, I can help you gain more clarity. Please give me your date of birth and 7 numbers between 1 and 22. I will check whether this is permitted, of course.

Thank you
Rolande

Hello,
I also have dreams that come true, and I’ve been doing so since childhood;
Sometimes I also see or hear things that come true (e.g., I see someone wearing a cast, and a while later I see them without the cast, a few days later the person will be wearing a cast). As for dreams, I can see people I know or people known by those in my circle whom I do not know, and of course, in my dreams, it’s always catastrophes (earthquakes, plane crashes, explosions) or warnings (the person needs to get blood tests or see a specific specialist, sometimes with the name, not to start a particular project or not to trust one or more people, beware of a trap, etc.). Sometimes it’s about elections (referendums, the first letter of the next president’s name three years in advance, etc.), exams (the exam topic, grades, teachers), deaths (who will die and the date—for my father, I saw January 5, 2000, and he died on January 3, 2000, but was buried on January 5, 2000), inheritance documents (indications of where they are hidden), scams, etc.
They say it runs in the family, and it’s true that on my father’s side, almost everyone has this gift.
We must accept this gift and learn to live with it; we must also know how to warn people without terrifying them.