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Hi, my name is Manel. I am 27 years old. I am in a relationship with a guy named Zied. Bad luck has been following us ever since I met him. Our relationship is becoming more and more fragile. We just broke up, but... I can't... because I love him. And I don't know whether it is better to leave him or stay with him? And as for work, I also have a problem... because every time... I manage to get something done and all of a sudden nothing comes to fruition... Please help me understand what is happening to me. Thank you.

Good evening Manel,

I didn't receive a specific question, but I'll try to answer you anyway.

At first glance, I notice from your writings that things are not going well either emotionally or professionally.

Sometimes you have to make choices, set priorities, and make decisions to achieve results, both in love and in your career.
We hold on to a person because we are alone or because we have no choice, as it provides help, a presence, familiar routines, and a fear of loneliness… but that is not a solution; it simply means it is not the right person and it is not yet your time to meet the man of your life.

As for the professional, do you have any shortcomings? You're not suitable? No degree? In short, it's not really your fault.
If you have the time and the will, get qualified through an x or y training program, set yourself a goal, fight for it, and you will see that there will be changes, because every hardship is rewarded—not immediately, and perhaps never—but at least you will have tried and put all your chances on your side.

And finally, tell yourself that there is a lack of work and also of men, because we are many, both men and women, who all want the same thing.

So we are not all equal, no matter what people say; some are lucky, while others make sure to turn luck in their favor. For some, it is a given thanks to their experiences, while others have gifts and natural abilities.

Keep me posted, and if you'd like, ask me a specific question by opening a new thread.

Kind regards
Ladysally