my emotional life

Hello
I am Doria (born August 30, 1968). I am in an unbearable state of doubt. My ex left me a month and a half ago, and for the past 10 days I have been in contact by phone and online with a man who says he has feelings for me (he was born May 23, 1959). Honestly, I am afraid; I no longer know if I should trust a man again. I loved my ex very much and did not see the breakup coming, and now I don't know what I should do. We have planned to meet in 4 days; we do not live in the same countries.
I would like to be informed by you.
Thank you

Good evening,

You are still under the influence of your former friend. It’s good that you can meet other people, but don’t rush things. Give yourself time to get to know them and to be sure of yourself. This new encounter may help you, but be cautious. Forget the past and live in the present moment, but without rushing.

Bonsor
I wrote to you some time ago and your response was truly relevant.
I can’t get over my ex, and because of that, I can’t see other people.
I am in contact with my ex by phone, and out of love, I have forgiven them everything because I love them.
But I don't feel like he still loves me; I'm giving you his date of birth, July 17, 1962, and mine is August 30, 1968.
I don't know what to do anymore, I love him.
Doria