Destiny....

I don't know if I'm in the right place: Sorry if that's the case...
My favorite motto is a quote by the Venerable Dalai Lama: "Each person is the master of their own destiny; it is up to us to create the causes of happiness, and it is our responsibility, and no one else's."
It is often said that our destiny is set from the moment we are born, that we live the life destined for us…
It seems to me that we have free will and that even if we have a …destiny … certain and written, we reach it through the path we choose.
Sometimes something is offered to us, and our past experiences lead us to refuse it, even though we know deep down that it is good for us.
I take as an example a man and a woman who meet; it is not a matter of chance, our soul is constantly seeking its soulmate. Some of us find it at the first meeting, while others take more time and share their lives with several people, learning what they need, until they finally find the one with whom they will spend the rest of their lives.
Do you believe that if our destiny is truly written, no matter what happens, no matter what we do with our free will, we will do what we are destined to do…?
Do you believe that no matter what happens, we will end our lives with the one we are truly destined for?
Have a good day
Edith

Hello Edith, I am taking the liberty of replying to you because I believe that indeed, on the day of our birth, God writes our destiny with certain variations, but that despite everything, we are not entirely free in our lives, which at times go badly even if we have done everything to make things go well. In our family, we call this the mektoub. Of course, we retain our free will to say yes or no, but at times we can only take the blows that life deals us in general and try to get back up, which is not easy for everyone, because not everyone has the strength of character that helps, or a family that helps, or a husband, a friend... well, you see, there are people who are truly very alone in this world, and yet they would like to find their soulmate, but God has decided otherwise, and one must wait.

Hi,

Personally, I think everything is written.
knowledge, relationships, discussions, warnings, EVERYTHING

Nothing is the result of chance.

For me, the only variant would be time.

If an accident is foreseen and I read it in the cards, I would be seriously wary, and at the moment I would seriously believe I was wrong, an accident of X would intervene.

A psychic told me I would have love and a pregnancy, and honestly, I got scared and didn’t want the guy in question to get close to me or touch me, lol… and the guy got upset, even though the psychic didn’t predict this affair for me, I think it was meant to happen this way, and if there really is to be a change, this pregnancy would come at a time when I least expect it and when I no longer believe the psychic’s words.

If chance existed, clairvoyance would not exist…

especially since clairvoyance is everywhere.

chance, e.g., you ask a question and your neighbor Chris’s son continues and you fall off your bike.
This message would also be predestined for us: knowing that if we continue, we are heading straight for a wall, even if it is a romantic relationship…
the shape of the clouds, hands, cards, astrology, instinct,
Everything is already written.

Here is my concept.

kiss

Romy

Hello Yerly,

I agree and thank you for this very insightful analysis!
Fate leads us through encounters, exchanges, and sharing to help us grow and evolve toward paths unknown until now, and in this way, fate is our guide.

Kiss
The magician.

Hello!
For me, things are written, whether we experience them directly or indirectly…
The fruit of chance certainly exists, and at the same time, I think that the encounters one can have in life are not truly due to chance…
All encounters, whatever they may be, have a progression, and if we meet a person at a given moment, it is because that encounter was necessary for our personal growth, just like everything we experience… to perfect our life’s path…
That is destiny… and I think there is something to be gained from these encounters… about oneself first, and then about the meaning we will give to our lives…
In every area of life, romantic, professional, and even here, even here on this forum!!!
Thanks, by the way, to life for putting on my path someone who, on this forum for a very long time, has been providing me with help and support through his gift, his talent, and his generosity and kindness—I call him The Magician!

Good day to you
Gerty

hi

It is true that the magician is brilliant and that he has an answer to everything!!!
They're not telling him anything; he's going to get himself worked up over it…

LOL

to define in a few words

Destiny: that's what we live

Destiny: it is what we have or will experience.
I would define this as a pulzzz
Reflecting on my life, I like to notice that everything fits together perfectly…

kiss

Romy

Hello Gerty!!!

Thank you for everything

Kisses
The magician.

Hi Romy!

Life is indeed a puzzle where, in the end, all the pieces fit together through learning, exchanges, and encounters.

Thank you for your comments!

Kiss
The magician.

Hi,

for the magician,

It's not an opinion but a conclusion!!!

I'm still trying to trap you with questions that are more and more bizarre, but you always have an answer to everything, and the most incredible thing is that you're just right…

I would have you, don't worry, I would know how to ask you a question you wouldn't have the answer to. LOL

for the other psychics
I haven't consulted you much, but you are also great, and this site in general is perfect.

I like the idea of being able to exchange impressions, ask questions, and find answers.
Like a psychic school, you find answers to everything…
8)

kiss

Romy

Good evening

I join you in this, because I read above “hazard, then destiny”; for me, hazard is not destiny, unless I’m not understanding, but whatever…

You say that destiny is written in each of us,
What this suggests, according to your notes, is that everything is written in advance: all events that occur are the work of fate, or even the work of God in a prenatal manner.
Is it fate that drives a person to become a criminal? In my view, fate is a form of belief, a form of blind motivation stemming from narcissistic fantasies. To believe in one's destiny is to impose some kind of importance on oneself in the history of humanity.
From then on, and if there is a destiny, it can then be induced.
If you tell a child that he is destined to become a great footballer, he will strive to make it so…

Nothing is fixed, nothing is immutable. Nature itself undergoes changes and metamorphoses. Movement is natural, stillness much less so.
To conclude, it is said that God gave man intelligence and wisdom.
to avoid building in risk zones and to protect ourselves from the violence of nature
So it is up to the man to take his precautions, analyze, and act accordingly.
Take the example of diseases: if I smoke three packs of cigarettes, I know what I am exposing myself to—is it my fate that imposes this trial on me?
If I drive at an excessive speed and have an accident, is that my fate, even though I know there is danger? No!

Believing in a destiny implies that throughout one's life, all actions are carried out with the aim of fulfilling that destiny.
By that, I mean that man will act with that sole purpose.
Yet all opportunities and all choices made do not depend solely on a unilateral will, but on a multitude of variables, such as the environment, education, and social and cultural life, which are themselves exposed to a form of universality that can neither be concentrated nor conjugated toward a purpose as confined as the fulfillment of destiny.

Hi Rachida

For me, chance does not exist!

If someone becomes a criminal, there are various reasons.
his childhood
his education
listening when he carries his worries
if their parent or family mistreats them
…
and it could happen to me tomorrow: I get into a fight with a friend in a fit of anger, I shove him and fall on a stone staircase step…

Why do some people smoke three packs of cigarettes a day and have intact lungs, while someone who doesn't smoke gets liver cancer?

For the car accident, he was destined to die that way.
or this accident was supposed to open his eyes.

If chance truly existed, how would it be possible for you to read the future?
Reactions may change, but destiny cannot, nor the way it must be fulfilled…

We all have different tastes and thoughts.
Some people think that gentle medicine, magnetizers, voodoo, psychics, mediums, …
It's all bluff, and yet I believe it, which is why we have different opinions...

Imagine the magician's plight if all women had the same way of seducing, the same face, the same body, the same mind, the same look…
100,000,000 identical women, he would get bored

which explains why you need a yo, a pink, a young one, an old one, a handsome guy, a smaller one, a big baby-sitter, an intellectual, a comedian, …
You choose your style, I choose mine, and the magician chooses his, and so on.

Do you understand me!!!???

:-*

kiss

Romy

Hi Yerly

Yes, Yerly, how many is it? You're right, Yerly, as you so well put it, "if his parent mistreats him," I understand you.
And if you fight with your boyfriend, he falls and gets hurt!

I understand you very well, Yerly.

Kind regards

Rachida

Hi Rachida,

I hope you understand.

I loved Charmed,
The three Halliwell witches must fight the demons,
Piper: freezes and explodes
Phoebe: levitation and premonition
prue: moves things with her mind, and possibly in two places at the same time
Paige: she calls the object and the eclipse
Leo: Guardian Angel / Gwerrit and Eclipse

In an episode:
A witch asked her guardian angel why evil and demons exist.
Leo replied:
For the equality of power, otherwise evil or good would prevail and there would be no battle…
Just as yin and yang, femininity blends with masculinity, good unites with evil, etc.…

And following a school essay, lol, he asked us the question: why does evil exist?
Because if evil and sorrows did not exist, who would you be to make yourself happy? Since, deep down, we would be smiling all the time without sorrow or disappointment, we would end up no longer knowing the true moments of joy after the darkness…

Kiss, Rachida

Romy