But when am I going to stop dreaming about my ex? * * * ok

Good evening,
My ex came back to my place to move in with me, and we were doing some renovations (walls, decor, etc.). He supposedly broke up with his girlfriend, and me, Manuel ;D. People would say, “But he was with a woman and the other with a man—how can they do that and accept this situation?” and so on. There was a lot of gossip.
With affection
Ladysally
By the way, I have no intention whatsoever of breaking up my relationship with Manuel for the mister.

I’m not going to interpret anything… you’ll stop dreaming about him when your subconscious stops thinking about him. It’s a way of processing your past.

Good evening, Loola,
Yes, maybe that’s how it is :-[ but that doesn’t address the meaning of my dream. ;D
Best regards
Ladysally

Hello Ladysally,
I know that this doesn't address the meaning of your dream, because Mamyol and you are the only ones who do it.
Sincerely
Loola

Hi again, Queen of the Night!

Well, this is becoming obsessive on your part!
I will again, no, not give you definitions or a translation, but answer you with questions.
So where do you stand in your relationship with yourself?
Where are you going?
You take care of your home, making it beautiful, just as you would want to make your life beautiful, to make it more pleasant.
You build walls there, which serve as protection. What do you want to protect yourself from? Or what have you failed to protect yourself from?
Where does the regret of not having been able to protect your couple come from?
Gossip… Are you afraid of it, or are they your own criticisms?
Actually, I wonder if you wouldn't rather lock your new relationship away, even if it's in a pretty setting.
No matter how nice the decor is, walls are still just walls.
Be careful not to turn it into a prison.
Or, wouldn't these dreams, which are somewhat repetitive, indicate a sense of insecurity?
Security of the relationship.
And what about financial security, did you have it when you were with your husband?
And having a relationship based on material things leads to gossip. Even if deep down you know it shouldn’t be that way, you know you’re too materialistic to have a completely selfless relationship, and your subconscious criticizes you for it.

If one day you managed to let go of everything related to money, you could live much more healthily. But I think I’ve already told you that, without it being a matter of dreams.

Sorry I can't offer you any answers, just questions.
But that's exactly the point: the answers are within you. You should be able to find them if you answer all these questions honestly, and even the ones I haven't written! lol!

Kind regards

Hello Mamyol,
I would like to congratulate you on this post.
For me, we can of course find the meanings of dream keywords.
However, I think it is very good to make the dreamer aware of their dream and also to ask them questions.
It seems to me that every dream… is ultimately something unconscious that the dreamer already knows or that they must work on.
Best regards
Loola

Unless, of course, it is a premonitory dream…

Hello mamyol,

Thank you, beautiful day queen, for helping me see more clearly in my dreams.

Hahaha, questions, but what's the point? Questions are there to get answers, so it's almost a solution in itself.

Indeed, Manuel and I have started beautifying the apartment and the girls' room as well.

I also want to protect my relationship because I wasn't able to save the previous one, and for me that's a bitter failure—not because I loved my ex as much as I love Manuel, but because I don't like having to start over from scratch. There are certainly gossip and ill will, and I'm afraid my family will say, "See, she broke up her marriage for a man who left her or who will leave her." I have just as much material wealth with my ex as I do with Manuel; on that front, I'm comfortable. I'm complaining because Manuel wanted to give me money to open my business, and with everything that's been falling on me, I'm being held back from realizing my projects. On top of that, a third party also wanted to open something in my name (to be in partnership), but that's just postponed for later, hihi, I hope. Otherwise, I would receive insurance in case I keep any aftereffects. As I say, since I'm doing it, I wouldn't want to be shortchanged but to get what I'm due...

It’s true, I’m into the material stuff, but deep down, if I’d had a penniless man, I wouldn’t have made a fuss about it, and that’s just as well. I combine the useful with the pleasant, hihiihi.

Actually, I’m not in it for the money, but I’ve always wanted to be independent, and with my ex I couldn’t, because he preferred a woman at home (to feed and pamper her), and he managed everything. Now I’ve had the opportunity to start something of my own, but as I mentioned earlier, I unfortunately cut my fingers and tendons.

I’m sending you a kiss, and vive Mamyol—come whenever you like, you’re always welcome, my dear.

Affectionately
Ladysally

Hello loola,
Indeed, or we dare not ask ourselves questions, first because we know the answer, and second because we dare not admit it to ourselves, or because we truly do not know... and that is where the questioning and the answers begin.
What do you mean by this: that it is a premonitory dream? loola…
Best regards
Ladysally

Hello Ladysally,
As you know, we have different kinds of dreams, including recurring dreams (that follow one another), symbolic dreams, or premonitory dreams.
Premonitory dreams are those in which the event will take place in the future and will ultimately prove to be real, and therefore true.
I think you know best yourself what kinds of dreams you most often have. In the case of premonitory dreams, patience is the watchword, and later we can say: yes, it was a premonitory dream or not, it was not one.
As for questions, we all have many, and sometimes our unconscious helps us see things more clearly…
Best regards
Loola

And to know how to project your life into the future, that falls under clairvoyance… and as you know, I don’t do that, and besides, I wouldn’t even dare.

Best regards
Loola

Yes, yes, Loola, I know what premonitory dreams mean, but what is the situation (premonitory)?
With affection
Ladysally

Indeed, clairvoyance is a different field and also a different debate. And it is true that one must be prepared for anything in clairvoyance, whether for good or bad predictions.
Look, I was saying that I saw Florance in my flashes, and it turns out she has passed away.
And believe me, it's devastating and not easy to deal with, and it's very sad for the family and for the psychic, so there you go.
With affection
Ladysally

I know it's not always easy to say or see events and therefore to predict the future.
I don't know if you have premonitory dreams sometimes… and for any dream (without thinking about this one), the situation would be that of the dream. This has happened to me before…
As for Florence's tragic situation, I hadn't had a good impression; but in such cases, there is absolutely nothing that can be done… especially if it is too late… and there is no room for 'speculation'. Only sad patience…
Like me when I felt that something serious was going to happen to someone in my family… I could only wait…

My impression about your dreams… you may be inadvertently mixing up your two lives… your present and your past… when a relationship has been very long, you can’t just erase it overnight.

As for your questions: you are asking yourself whether what you did was right or wrong, how to improve, how to avoid making the same mistakes again, how to improve the current relationship compared to the previous one, and so on… but one thing is certain: don’t listen to gossip, listen to your heart.

Your heart will guide you to where your path lies.

Kind regards
Loola
Best regards
Loola