Re: mouse * * * ok

Hello Mamyol

First of all, I wish you a thousand good things for these holiday moments. May magic surround you, and take care of yourself.

Here is my dream: before falling asleep, I wanted to make an irrevocable decision, and here is the dream I had: the person I was talking to has nothing to do with the decision to be made, but this person told me, "No, above all, you must stay; we like you and we love it when you are here." Does this have anything to do with the decision I wanted to make? I am waiting for your response before making this fateful decision, in case this dream prevents me from making a mistake. Thank you for enlightening me; was this a message meant to prevent me from making a mistake?
Sincerely, Celiabebe

Hello Sarlet,

I will answer on behalf of mamyol if you don't mind, as she is very busy at the moment.

And then, if you could please start a new discussion thread each time you post your next dream. Thank you for your understanding.

Dear Sarlet, you gave the answer yourself:
You have a decision to make, and you consult your inner self, and your inner self responds: "We love you when you are here." So it is up to you to understand what the message is telling you.

Have a happy New Year and see you next time.

Kind regards
Ladsyally

Okay, thank you.
Sorry, but sometimes I don’t have the option to ask questions.
What I found strange was that I was talking to someone, yet it wasn't with this person that I was supposed to make the decision. Why did the person I was talking to (whom I know) appear in this dream?
Thank you, have a good day, celiabebe

Good evening Sarlet,

Yes, I understand you, no problem, dear Sarlet.

In a dream, seeing an unknown man symbolizes your masculine side or your dark side coming to the surface.

while a friend or acquaintance: symbolizes the friend, support, and a part of you that you know and are updating (an unhidden part of you).

It obviously has nothing to do with him, but he’s referring to you. In principle, you are that person, and she’s asking you to stay… because you feel good and you don’t want to make a mistake (i.e., make the wrong decision).

If you want more details or if you didn't understand, I can help you.

Best regards
Ladysally

Yes, thank you, because the decision I wanted to make was to distance myself from someone I have feelings for (but he tells me he doesn't have any for me), and that is hard to manage, so what should I do? (I think he does have feelings, but maybe he's not ready.) So what does this dream tell me? Wait? Does it tell me if I will get an answer to my waiting? Thank you, have a good day, and above all, a happy new year to you and your loved ones.

Good evening, dear Sarlet,

You say you have to make a decision: the decision is whether to stay or leave?

In your dream, you say that (you must stay because we love you).

You're saying that he has a bit of it, but he's not ready.

Should I wait? Yes? Wait for a response.

But here, it’s you who must feel ready to leave and take responsibility, so the decision is yours.

Indeed, it is a very difficult choice, because when you leave, you know what you are leaving behind, but you do not know what will take its place.

I wish you and your loved ones a sweet and happy 2009.

With affection
ladysally

By the way, if you want to talk, I'm here, no problem.

Good evening Sarlet,

I’m reaching out to you again because I get the feeling you’re in the dark, and I’m going to shed a little more light on things for you.

Let me explain: you want to leave because he tells you he has no feelings for you, but your inner voice tells you that yes, he loves you, but he doesn't say it or show it, or even says the opposite simply because that's just how he is.
You tell yourself that he loves you and that he isn't ready for a relationship because you're just starting to get to know him well. It's you who is living with him or dating him, so if you feel that he loves you, then he does, because if feelings are there, they are there. So wait a little longer and see if he really loves you, and then you'll make your choice.

With affection
Ladysally

By the way, if it can help you, my husband has never once said “I love you” to me, and when we met, he even warned me by saying that he would never love anyone again. I lived with him for 18 years, and if I hadn’t ended it, I would still be with him.