I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO :(((

Hi everyone, here I am. I am madly in love with a man I met online. It has become much more than that despite the distance between us. But here’s the thing: for nearly eight months now, there has been nothing. It has made me sick, and no one can help me figure out if this person truly loved me. We even talked about meeting and getting married. Since then, he has become distant toward me. We have a strange relationship. I am a Pisces, born March 9, 1978, and he is a Taurus, born May 10, 1976. I really love him. There is a lot of respect for me, but his attitude, acting as if nothing happened, makes me sick. I don’t understand. It’s not a big deal, but I just want to know if I will ever be able to see him, whether I should wait or let go. I hope this isn’t too long. This is the first time I am coming to this site. Thank you.

Hello misskind!

I am not a psychic at all. Just my opinion based on experience.
An online encounter, even if the exchanges are perfect and imbued with mutual respect, remains a virtual interaction and should be taken for what it is, especially in the realm of romance.
And you know what they say about distance: it either kills love that wasn’t worth it, or it strengthens true love.

On the other hand, via the internet, most of the time those who form such relationships do not settle for just one, but continue to have several.
Also, as far as simple friendship goes, that’s fine, but having a romantic relationship over the internet, unless there’s an exception or you’re a masochist, is a sure path to disaster.

No psychic can make decisions for you, because no matter what possibilities they see, you alone retain your free will. I would just advise you to get back in touch with reality and not delude yourself too much.

Warm regards

Hi Misskind,

Welcome to the site!

I advise you to turn the page on this relationship, as it seems to be a man who has apparently made the same promises to others. So, a little piece of advice: forget the past and rebuild your love life on new, concrete foundations rather than illusory ones!

Friendship
The magician.

Thank you for your welcome

And regarding your reply, just one question: do you see this, or have you analyzed the matter? Because I got to know them through the internet?? And you claim it’s impossible.

BPC, these are people I met online; it’s not all negative. Besides, I had contact with this person via phone, exxt! The project was not just through chat.

Hi Misskind,

I saw this based on his date of birth, which reveals a rather ambiguous character in whom one cannot place full trust; I would say he is quite manipulative.
My analysis has nothing to do with the fact that you met this person online, because, as you rightly say, it is true that many people have found true love through this medium. However, it is also important to recognize that many individuals use the internet solely to satisfy their fantasies, given the anonymity that the virtual world offers, and that is where one must be careful!

I wish you a good end to your evening
The magician.

You do know that love makes you blind, don't you?
But what you say will remain like an echo in the mountains, resonating until the day she becomes aware of all of this.

She has high expectations for this relationship, which is already doomed to fail, but how do you reason with someone who is clinging to it?

We do not want to be judges, but simply to offer advice on what many have experienced, are experiencing, and will one day experience.

The only advice is: stop thinking with your brain, but with your heart. It seems very difficult to do that when you are constantly thinking about it, and thoughts are deceitful and manipulative, especially if the person in front of you uses words, like you drinking a glass of water to be quenched and have your thirst satisfied.

It is good to have different opinions and to also have different words to help you understand better and move forward more calmly.

The future is clearly laid out for us, but as for the dates, locations, and times of the events, that is up to you.

We will always have advice to impart to you if you know how to listen and learn from your past.

Kind regards,

Bensoussa

:(( thank you, it's just really hard for me. I can't believe how things can be like this with people. I thought he was a serious person, despite everything, and this confirms what I've been thinking deep down all along. And as you say, love is blind; when you're in love, you don't see things clearly. This story has made me feel sick and ridiculous.

It's really mean

Anyway, thank you all three! Hoping my days will be better! Peace

Hello Misskind,

You never truly know another person until you have actually spent time with them.
Yes, as the saying goes, "Love is blind," but this should not prevent us from learning to look at things squarely with lucidity, even if it hurts or offends us.

People generally believe what they want to believe.

It’s not ridiculous at all, because this experience will have allowed you to open others’ eyes, and that is where your testimony is praiseworthy for its sincerity.
Take good care of yourself and don't let this undermine your health.
Step back from this, and you will later realize that you have relieved yourself of a burden, allowing you to live again like a butterfly that loves life, and your future days will be better, you will see!

Kisses
The magician.

:-* thank you so much, magician, you are so kind!

Hi Misskind!

You’ll always be welcome

Kiss
The magician.