father

Good evening, my name is Carole and my father passed away about five years ago. I dream about him; it’s been two nights in a row where he appears, looking handsome and smiling at me… And then, I just went through a breakup, and I keep dreaming about a lot of people, but mostly guys, and my ex is always there… Thank you.

Good evening, Carole!

Father:
The father represents the maturity of the spirit to be attained, the inner hero. He represents power, authority, love, the ideal, the husband. The father is the active force that serves the instinct of domination and gives the sense of the highest transcendence.
For each individual, to kill the father: it is to be born and to assume him within oneself.
To possess one's inner father It is a death and a rebirth. It is to live gloriously the hero’s feat, that is to say, his capacity to love.
To have access to the father's transcendence It is about transcending the need to be paternal, accepting support without clinging to it. It is about being able to face one’s solitude, in order to allow the autonomy that leads to the true capacity to love, without fear or possessiveness, to take root. It is about being able to destroy within oneself the darkness, the shadows inherited from the instinct of the first man. In the struggle to reach maturity in dreams, the father appears in the form of the masculine and active principle. In every individual, the dual aspect of the father, negative and positive, coexists.
In dreams, the negative father : it leads us back to authoritarianism, destruction, castration, and oppressive laws and justice systems.
The other aspect of the father, the positive one : reveals to us the true individuality that shines like a sun and projects itself into the future, embracing the laws and the revealing words, through participation in external social life.
The father represents all active principles.
In comparison to the mother: The father is a greater symbol of happiness and distributes more energy; love is more fulfilling and deeper there.
Whether his father is alive or dead In real life, to dream of it: indicates a genuine relationship with him, depending on one’s state of life and the situation one is in.
The father in the dream: may signify the state of a feeling one experiences for a man or a woman, as the father is often the symbol of marriage.
Seeing him burned or suffering: a sign of romantic disappointments.
To see it shining: indicates that a love will bring us as much vitality as the sun.
For a woman: The father represents the husband or the free man, and the mother represents the lover or the secret man.

Smile:
Happy harmony with the entourage. Joy and happiness.

Man:
Man is the solar symbol.
For a woman: sexual, erotic. Dreaming of a stranger forces her to view the personality of the man she is currently involved with from a different perspective.
If she dreams of a known man: he represents the true relationship she has or will have with him. This dream determines the quality of this feeling or her romantic relationships.
If the man she knows is not the one of her life: he becomes a personal symbol that she projects onto him in life.
Dreaming of a man with whom one experienced a great love and from whom one separated for serious reasons: places the dreamer in the same situation at this moment with another person.
If she dreams of a young man: A near encounter. Joys.

Summary:
Apparently, you desire a relationship that would lead toward marriage. Something constructive. You are projecting onto a new relationship the one you already had with your ex.

Kind regards