To all those whose hearts bleed
How many tears have I not shed? How many times here on AZ have I not thought you understand nothing, you know nothing. How many times have I thought while reading your advice, I don't care.
And yet, you were all right; you were all there, present, bringing attention, understanding, and love.
The pain faded when one evening, in my bed, I realized that I was truly alone and that I could do and love what I wanted, in the way I wanted.
The pain has subsided, and the desire to give has arrived even stronger and more clearly than before.
Passion for something else stands before you
The drive to move forward is deeper, more visceral, greater, and more real.
When you put what is holding you back in the foreground, your life stops moving forward, your laughter disappears, and your sense of fun is dead.
You have to learn to let go, but keep in the back of your mind that it will happen later, at the right time, with the right person. The love that everyone is looking for will come knocking on your door when you are truly available, without wanting to settle for the first happiness that comes along.
Everyone has the right to that, but it must not become the top priority in your life.
I won’t hide the fact that I sometimes miss tenderness, but when I can receive a smile from someone, kind words, and a hand that holds mine, that eases the longing.
Everyone is entitled to happiness; you just have to know how to look for it and not make it an obsession.
Maldives.
Because it makes you sick, you stop doing anything, you just sit there staring into space.
Waiting for something that never comes, and then the day you get yourself back on track, you’re full of projects, and that’s when you realize that staying in the vague has plunged you into the night instead of bringing you into the Light.
Hey, it’s not easy every day, but don’t get discouraged, especially don’t get discouraged… there are always solutions, they just take a long time to come, yes, I know, but they do come.
Rise up, wounded hearts, move forward, walk toward the sun, and love what surrounds you.
I hug you all very tightly and thank you for everything
Pat
