Encounter with love

Hello everyone!

As is very often the case, the same question keeps coming up in various forms, both in discussions and at the magician’s booth, so I take the liberty of sharing here an answer that was given elsewhere to this question, as it is so true and can apply to anyone.

Why can’t I meet my soulmate?
Why don't I find love?
Why am I always alone?
Why am I not experiencing the happiness of a life together?

As long as you believe that happiness is experienced as a couple, your other half will not appear.
I know it’s hard… but life brings you the right person when you learn to be happy on your own and become self-sufficient.
Make yourself happy on your own and you will be able to make another person happy.
The happiness of a life together begins with the happiness of being truly alone…
You must draw from the depths of yourself all the qualities you possess, all the love you have for yourself…
Be mindful and everything will fall into place. I promise.
Start by loving yourself… and adoring spending time with yourself… And then she (he) will appear…

There you go, that’s the advice we were already giving you, but I think it’s always good to remind people.
Very friendly

Hello everyone,

Love is the very essence of life, and everyone seeks to taste this rare commodity.
In my opinion, it is difficult to find one's soulmate, because we look for perfection in the other person.

Best regards
The magician.

To Mamyol and A MAGIC

Thank you both for this new thread…

Love, again and always
For me, Mamy is right that it is good to be happy alone and then to share that happiness, but we sometimes meet people who, seeing us happy and fulfilled, want to be like us.

Seeing oneself in the other’s gaze: the “mirror effect”

These people drain our zest for life, so beware… of the trap… knowing how to recognize our alter ego.

Loving the flaws… of the other and vice versa.

Yes, Magic, you’re right too: perfection doesn’t exist, fortunately for us.

Loving the other person's imperfections is, it seems to me, a great proof of love…

Kisses to you both.

Marie.

Hello Mamyol and Marie,

By this pursuit of the super-perfect, I meant that many of us look in others for physical perfection, a good social standing, the one who has all the qualities, which leads us to never be satisfied and to wait for the one we may never find, because no one is perfect.

Kisses
The magician.

Hello Marie and Magic!

The perfect does not exist, that is certain.
Besides, what is perfect for one is imperfect for the other.

Only the being that corresponds to our present exists.
The one who, by sharing a stretch of the road with us, allows us to move forward.

And after this step, if both have progressed at the same pace and in the same direction, they may continue with another step.
Otherwise, it will be a crossroads, and in this new present, another person will be a better match.

But never to say after a turning point in our lives that this one or that one was not right for us.
That was the person who suited us at that time, in that present, and who allowed us to take a step forward. We just need to thank them for being there at the right time.

And we must now move on to the next step.
A new encounter, a new magic!
But above all, a new progression toward ourselves.

Kisses to you both

Hello Mamyol and Marie!

Perfection is merely an illusion, and a meeting should always be perceived, whether perfect or imperfect, as something magical, as a triggering moment of possibility, but in any case, as something never to be regretted.

Kisses to you both
The magician.

Hello,

At my place, it’s very simple: I don’t go on any dates at all, lol. So I don’t even have to think further ahead, lol.

Kind regards,
ClaudiaC

Hello Claudiac!

Also think about the most beautiful encounter you have been given the chance to make, if you are willing to pay attention to it:

Think of the encounter with yourself
I thought I could feel that you had started to love yourself

And that is the most beautiful encounter with love you could have: loving yourself.

It’s easy to meet people, to cross paths with them, to exchange a few words with them, but with yourself…

Going to meet this being of light that slumbers in each of us. Knowing how to recognize and love this little flame that only asks to grow is a challenge that some succeed at without even trying, but for others it is much more difficult to accomplish.
And from this, you are beginning to find the way.

That is what matters. It is the most beautiful and most precious of encounters. To find oneself and to love oneself.

Friendship

I have nothing particular to add to what is said in this exchange, except that I am amazed by the quality of this exchange and in perfect harmony with what Lemagician and Mamyol are saying!

Hello Mamyol,
if I pay attention to it.
However, by meeting myself and being satisfied with myself, I will no longer need a relationship or any encounters. I will no longer even want them, having become self-sufficient.
Kind regards,
ClaudiaC

Hi again!

Thanks, Tom, for the compliments.

Claudiac, your response only shows that you are just at the very beginning.
You've found the direction, but you still have a long way to go.

When we truly find ourselves and come to love ourselves, we become open, because the small light within us grows and shines outward.

So we realize all the possibilities that await us.
Love is great and has no limits; it is not narrow-minded, it is the entire universe.

Love is simply the life within us.

Friendship

Hello Mamyol,
I know, you’ve already told me I have a long way to go. And that I’m far from there.
For now, I don't see anything waiting for me, just very real trouble…

Best regards,
ClaudiaC