Interpretation of a dream

Hello,
I don’t usually dream, or rather, I don’t remember them. And that’s been the case ever since I dreamed of my father’s death. Since then, my nights have been a gaping door onto the void.
Tonight I dreamed that I received a text message with drawings and the following message: "It's okay, I'm coming."
This dream follows up on an invitation I sent to a man I really want to see again, but who has clearly grown tired of my inconsistency.
Well, I don't know what to make of this dream. I often hear that dreams should be interpreted by the opposite of what they announce. Reading this forum, I realize it's much more complex.

Please help me understand. I haven't received a response from him. Should I take it that it's over, or is this dream encouraging me to keep hope alive???

Estella

Hello Estella,

I’m not going to give you a dream interpretation. I’m just writing down what I think—it’s only valid for me and maybe not for others.
You say that we need to interpret the opposite meaning of what they announce.

I don't know, in any case, I had dreams just like you did, before my father's death. Now my dreams were trying to make me understand that a death or a terrible event, in my eyes, was going to happen.

I also had a dream like yours.

Once, I dreamed that I received the following text message: “I’m on my way back.” I received the message by email: “I’m leaving now.” It happened once.

The best thing for your dream is to write it down somewhere and wait…

I had a similar dream and I think it’s the only thing I can do.

Where do you hope to receive a message from your father saying, “I’m coming back”? How many dreams have I not had that announced his return in various forms… even though consciously I know he will never do it again.

Maybe someone else can tell you whether this ‘message’ should indeed be taken at face value or the opposite?

ClaudiaC

Hello ClaudiaC,

Thank you for your advice, which I take as a sign of support?
I may have expressed myself poorly regarding my dream, but it is not my father’s return that I am waiting for (even if I give that impression!).
He is dead and I am very Cartesian. I know he will not come back. Dreaming of him has allowed me not to fall apart. Because when I think about it, I tell myself he just said goodbye. And since then, I act as if he is on a trip (which he was at the time of his death), and the idea that he will open the door comforts me instead of crushing me. All of this is not very logical, especially since I do not believe in an afterlife; but my mind accommodates it and I am doing very well with this idea.
What I meant to say is that this dream was the last one I remembered upon waking up (it’s been 11 years).
This time, my dream is about a man. I realized too late how I felt about him. I invited him to spend a weekend with me, but I’m met with his silence.
In this dream, he told me that he was accepting my invitation, and I wanted to know how to interpret this dream. Around me, I have often heard that dreams should be interpreted by their opposite meaning. That's all.

In any case, thank you. I followed your advice and noted the dream in my diary.
Unless someone gives me an idea of the interpretation, I’ll soon know for sure.
And you made me talk about my father, it did me good. Thank you. I’m probably living with his ghost. I hope that, for your part, you’re doing well.
Forgive my curiosity, but did you find out what your dream meant?
Estella

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Hello,

This is my dream: tonight, a dragon was supposed to come to my apartment, and my 20-year-old son remained calm and serene. He told me not to worry, saying he knew what to do. I was to get under the bed and put red stuff all around my bed, while he stayed outside. He was getting ready to leave for Paris. The word "trust" came up often in this dream. When he spoke to me, he had a very beautiful, truly serene smile. He was not afraid.
This dream really disturbed me, especially seeing my son so calm, and with such a beautiful smile.

Here is) if anyone can help me understand this dream.

Thank you
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Hello Estella,
I understood your dream perfectly. And that you were hoping a man would come back to you.
Yes… it really was a support, I know that when you have this kind of dream, you need it.
For my dream, I had what felt like a sequence of dreams. I wrote it down in a notebook, and the 'future' will tell me whether it is a premonitory dream or 'symbolic'.
Kind regards,
Claudiac

Hello,
Here is a dream I had a few months ago (three months). My husband and I were at the entrance of a cemetery, probably attending a funeral since there were other people there, and a coffin that, later in the dream, contained a person who had already passed away a year ago and who was very dear to us. We were not sad in the dream. A girl I know pointed at the cemetery and said, “Look, that’s your next house,” and I replied, laughing, to my husband, “Did you hear what she said?” but as if it were a joke. Then it was over; the dream ended.

I find this kind of dream quite strange because even though I dream a lot and sometimes of rather intense things, this particular dream is really striking.
In case anyone knows what this means?
Thank you

Hello, I had a strange dream because I never dream. I am told of my father’s death. I am at his house; his wife has just cut her wrists, and her daughter is by her side. I am prevented from getting close. I keep asking when my father died and under what circumstances; I want to know the day and the time. I feel that my father is there, but I cannot see him. It upset me upon waking. (In reality, I don’t have a good relationship with his wife, but I remain polite.) Thank you, Juliesoleil

Good evening, girls!

I am reminding you here of what has already been said in the pinned messages:

If you want your dreams to be translated, please start a new thread for each dream to make it easier to keep track of them.

Personally, if I see that a reply has been posted on a dream thread, I trust it and move on to another one.

Also, if it’s another dream, they may never get any answers.

Please follow the instructions so that no one is penalized.

Kind regards

Sorry, but I don't know how to start a new thread. Is it possible to interpret my dreams? I'll try to figure out how to start a new thread next time. Thanks, Juliesoleil

Okay, Julie!
I’ve moved you to a new thread for clarity.
Friendship