I'm thinking of moving in but...

How do you actually say "I'm shitting myself"?

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Here, it’s still not nothing, and I’m a bit scared to do it, but it would really mean a lot to me.
I have a very strong intuition; I know things without knowing how I know them. I also see things, but it’s of no use to me because I only see unimportant stuff. To my great despair, I can't control it, and my "visions," if I may say so, are ridiculous. (For example, I had seen that I would be playing Scrabble with my husband while on TV there were women with their backs to the camera filing their nails, and indeed, that's what happened.)
People always come to me to talk about their problems; it’s incredible, I’m a magnet for lost hearts and minds. I don’t know why, it’s always been like this, and every time my answers hit the mark. So, I keep thinking I could make ends meet with this “gift,” as they say. I’m a student and my husband bounces around from one odd job to another; in short, financially it’s not great for us, and any extra income, however small, wouldn’t be negligible.
I just don’t dare to start… my husband encourages me; he says I would probably do good work, but I can’t bring myself to have confidence in myself…

Sorry for editing your message, but I want to avoid any further outbursts, so no swear words on the site.

You mention a lack of self-confidence; what worries you the most? What are your true fears?

Oops, sorry for the language.

I have a hard time figuring out exactly what’s holding me back. Maybe it’s the apprehension of others’ judgment; psychics are often seen as charlatans… and maybe it’s also the fear of being wrong, of taking someone’s money and not being able to help them… It’s hard, I don’t really know what’s blocking me…

I think we should just try it, getting the hang of it little by little.

If you have something to offer that people want, it may be natural to charge them for it. Why? Because it is natural. It allows the relationship to be placed on the footing of a contract rather than a false friendship.

It also allows you to have more time to do this rather than something else.

As for charlatanism, if you wish to be a psychic, it is a nature within you that must want to express itself, and therefore a new way of being. So the gaze of others… What importance!

What matters is your vision of clairvoyance in relation to yourself, and that of your companion; your conscience. You will become a charlatan if you become venal and seek to make money by speculating on people's misery by lying to them.

What matters, therefore, is what you will do, not what you will be.

Give it a try, I think it's worth it.

I agree with Tom, you need to get started, that’s how you’ll realize your gift, and of course, don’t be venal, because then your gift will be lost!!! I also had doubts about my gift of cartomancy and I didn’t dare to get started!!! but I did well because people repay me… In fact, I am their confidante because these people feel lonely and desperate, “if we can bring them a little happiness in their lives” we realize that we serve a purpose in life if that is our goal.
Be brave and confident
Eliana

Honestly!! Go for it!!
It is your sincerity with people and the contact you will have with them that will make them see that you are not ripping them off!!
Good luck!! I hope it works out for you!! And if you want, we can try it that way by email, I'm up for it!!

I am greatly grateful for your advice and encouragement. I discussed it again with my husband and I decided to do it. I will start in January because for now I am moving and at the same time I have midterm exams, so I will wait until January. I have carefully reflected on my perspective on clairvoyance and what it represents for me. I am now very motivated and I really can’t wait to be able to offer my help to others!

On the other hand, I will need practice to be effective, but I don't know if it's really possible to do clairvoyance remotely at my level… but it's worth a try if anyone wants it.

Okay, I’m up for it, whenever you want!
Abientot

Eliana

What enthusiasm!!! Well done to you

In the forum, the question section is full of people asking for answers. I think that if you warn them properly that they are playing the role of guinea pigs, they will be very happy about this mutual service.

Maybe you could also take the opportunity to exchange with more experienced people like Eliana.