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Marriage

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Hello everyone,

This morning, before I woke up, I had this dream:

It’s my sister’s wedding day. I’m in a hotel room with my mother, getting ready to get dressed. I have my own wedding dress in front of me, and I’m hesitating about putting it on, even though my mother says, “But put it on, it looks so good on you.” Actually, I think I wouldn’t want to be more beautiful than the bride on her wedding day. Despite my mother’s insistence, I put on a blue suit (skirt and jacket) with a shirt that I really like.

I'm almost late and I see my sister from a distance and I can see she's wearing a nice dress (but not particularly).

I am ready to enter the great hall where the ceremony (and the party) is taking place, and I see people gathering in this hall. This hall is part of a castle (known by name but unknown to me).

Strange dream… I’m having trouble understanding it…

Kind regards,
ClaudiaC

Hello,
I could, of course, try to interpret it myself, but I might lack the necessary detachment since it concerns me personally.
I have some ideas about the meanings of certain keywords in this dream... but I’m not sharing them yet, to allow someone to help me interpret the dream.
ClaudiaC

Hello Claudiac, Hello Lady, and hello everyone!

This post is to let you know that I am taking this dream to translate, if that’s okay with you.

Have a good day
Friendship

Hello Mamyol,
If it doesn't bother the other members, I don't mind if you "take this dream."
Have a good end to your day,
ClaudiaC

Good evening, Mamyol,
Good evening claudiac,

Thank you for letting my dear Mamyol know, and thank you for the translation of our friend Claudiac's dream.

With affection
Ladysally

Good evening Claudiac, hi Lady,

Marriage:

Marriage signals to the dreamer the end of a way of life, and thus of a detachment, and a union toward another continuous thread of existence. The union marks the meaning of all marriage, the alliance of two sexual and romantic lives, in order to germinate other vital processes. It becomes the sacred formula for finding complementarity.
Attending a wedding, if all goes according to plan, can herald a well-matched union.
On the other hand, if one of the spouses is not there, it is the affirmation of a feeling that is impossible to live.
Marriage is sometimes a journey of the personality in search of its unity. (masculine–feminine).
For a married person: family troubles
Attending a wedding: upcoming bereavement

Sister

For a woman, her sister is very often a projection of herself, her shadow.
However, good relations with a sister manifest themselves in a dream life, and you may truly dream of sweet and delicious moments that your dream foretells for the near future.

Room:
• What we see: joy and pleasure.
The bedroom is a place of rebirth
It relates to the health and love of the dreamer.
A well-made bed symbolizes guaranteed happiness, love, and health.
A foreign bedroom: without meaning to, one will find oneself privy to another person’s private matter.
For a single person or one without a romantic attachment, dreaming that one is in a bedroom is sometimes a sign of union.

Hotel:
It is a symbol announcing the temporary, that which cannot last. One cannot adapt to the artificial where nothing binds us to life. Or the social context is only envisaged momentarily in a need to be entertained or to rest.

Mother:
It represents our ability to want to live, fight, and survive through battles and failures.
According to the reports we have had with her, she can become the unconscious symbol of an instinct of frustration, anxiety, and oppression that persists in life.
Motherhood can be an exploration of our emotional life.
If one dreams of her often, it is a sign that one lacks confidence and has not yet achieved independence.
Seeing someone worried about their child: we are exposed to the danger of having to suffer from the misfortune that has struck another person.

Dressing:
It is to be subjected to a sentimental, ideological influence.
Being well-dressed indicates an adaptation to conventional and social thinking
Look within yourself: secrets will be revealed.

wedding dress:

This one is related to the symbolism of marriage. It most often refers to the marriage the dreamer is experiencing in real life. In some cases, it will refer to the union of the two energy forces that dwell within each of us, the receptive (so-called feminine) and the active (so-called masculine), thus a good harmony with oneself.

Costume
• Symbolic and social significance
• each person dresses according to their social status
In a dream, we are undressed.
• Owning or buying a: wealth and fame.

Blue
Blue connects us to the spirit of truth and gives us the desire to attain knowledge.
It is the color of the mind, of intelligence, of loyalty, of serenity, of fidelity, and of peace.
• Color: symbol of wish fulfillment.


Skirt:
•
First a sexual interpretation, then a social significance indicating membership in a specific class. In women's dreams:
• Beautiful and elegant: we will be successful with the opposite sex.


Jacket
In Women's Dreams:
• What we see: a man is playing a role.
• Beautiful and elegant: you will meet a charming suitor.
• Shredded and torn: disappointment.

Shirt:

It represents a feeling and provides the outward appearance of our affectivity.
A white or brightly colored, clean shirt announces joy.

People:
• Seeing it coming toward you: slander.

Room
• The one you see or the one you are in: you will not stay in your current residence for much longer.

Delay:
It seems we have missed the right moment in life, or we are at risk of missing it in the near future.

Château:

It is our greatest dream of fulfillment and personal achievement. The castle places us in the quest for self-discovery through a process of personalization toward perfection and wholeness.
Reaching the castle: after internal struggles, one finds harmony and success. Great satisfaction, especially if one finds a good atmosphere there.
What we see: a brilliant ascent.
• In which one is invited: announcement of a distinguished and influential protector.
• Signifies any company, any person to invest in; penetrating it therefore offers a flattering hope.


Summary:

Still torn, you are in a duality between your “self” with all its desires and all the principles of your upbringing, but there is a slight progress.
Your mother, who often appears in your dreams, reflects the lack of confidence you have had until now. As a symbol of what “should” be right and of what you “should” do, she is there to guide your choices, in accordance with an ideology, namely a certain conformism, that of your upbringing, to which you have always submitted.
But this time, you have decided to do things differently; this time, it is not she who will decide for you, but you yourself. This proves that the beginning of the letting-go process has finally begun.
Through your sister’s wedding, which is also somewhat your own since your sister represents you, you are seeking your own identity.
You reject the wedding dress and the harmony orchestrated by your mother, and you choose an elegant blue suit, the color of the serenity you aspire to.
You almost missed the ceremony, you think you've missed the decisive moments of your love life, and you'd really like things to be different this time.
The ceremony takes place in a castle, which reflects the success and fulfillment you aspire to.

In my opinion, this is the very beginning, the early signs of your letting go that are starting to take hold.
Happiness, as defined by the education your mother gave you, is not the one your heart aspires to.
Reason can warn us of what we must avoid, but only the heart tells us what we must do (Joubert)
So keep listening to your heart, and you will find serenity and fulfillment, no matter what obstacles may cross your path.

Very friendly
Best regards

Hello Mamyol,
Thank you very much for interpreting my dream.
If we look only at the keywords, many events could occur soon, and I find the synthesis to be good.
I certainly missed some decisive moments in my love life... for a long time now, which is why it matters less and less to me... and why I no longer have much desire to commit to any relationship.

Kind regards,
ClaudiaC

You reject the wedding dress and the harmony orchestrated by your mother, and you choose an elegant blue suit, the color of the serenity you aspire to.
You almost missed the ceremony, you think you’ve missed the decisive moments of your love life, and you’d really like things to be different this time.

Hello again, Mamyol,

I even tell myself that I’m going to do as I please and stop trusting in my love life... that I’m completely failing at it... that I don’t want a wedding dress, a wedding, a relationship, or a man in my life... and that I’m defying my mother and everyone who says you can’t live without love.

Having suffered in love, I turn my back on him, and at the same time, on myself.

No one has understood the pain and sadness this causes me.

This dream also means this to me… that I’m putting a cross on what people say about not being able to live without love, etc…

Your interpretation is good, but here is what it evokes in me after thinking about it a bit.

Kind regards,
ClaudiaC

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